Is it wrong to pretend to be a stranger online and seduce them to have cybersex to test if they are faithful to you or not?
2006-10-11 17:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a bad idea. You will feel bad iether way if he is not true to you it will ruin your relationship but if he is you will feel bad that you couldn't just let yourself trust him
2006-10-11 17:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what it feels like to be in a relationship where the issue of trust/faithfulness is in question. I wouldn't go so far as to test it. It's better to just bring it out in the open. The truth is, that once the trust begins to fail, the relationship is in serious trouble anyway. It's better to get it out in the open. Don't make accusations and put them on trial. Especially don't ask if they've cheated on you, because no answer to that question will satisfy you. Simply tell your significant other that you feel that the relationship is suffering, that you feel he/she isn't being totally open with you. Make it an effort to repair the trust that has been lost instead of fulfilling your own need to know exactly what's going on.
2006-10-12 00:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by hawkeye847 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very very very bad thing to chose to do. I know someone that done that and ruined their relationship so bad and couldnt even be friends with their ex anymore. If you can not trust a guy/girl you should not be in a relationship. Sooner or later they will find out it was you or they may know it is you and test you right back by playing along and saying that they know it is you. So you should never do that to someone. Trust is a major issue in a relationship. You play with fire and you are definatly going to get burnt at some point. DONT DO IT! For your sake and theirs!
2006-10-12 00:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very WRONG'
actually if is up to you......it might be he just likes to goof around and not take it serous. But if you catch him, it will be very serious for you.
Have a talk to him about what the two of you would do as boundries of activity online. Come to an agreement
2006-10-12 00:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew my man was online and I could catch him doing something then I would. I do need to find out a way to do it. Any suggestions
2006-10-12 00:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Feelsolost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a terrible way for you to live. If you have to test him/her, you have zero trust. Why would you even want to be with someone you can't trust. Jealousy will only destroy you.
2006-10-12 00:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that just depends....if they ever found out you could be in for a breakup....choose what you do wisely...but if you have to test your relationship then it probably wont work out...if you really like them then you should know what kind of person they are before you go out with them.
2006-10-12 00:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd say that's pretty twisted. With that and your guy friend question, I'd say truthfulness is a big issue with you, isn't it?
2006-10-12 00:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol thats funny. They might if they think "online things" dont count as cheating
2006-10-12 00:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope and if you do u have some serious trust issues that u need to deal with all in all if he wants to cheat he will
2006-10-12 00:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by mekhia81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋