There is this man I like. we normally talk on the phone and e-mail etc...when we do talk I try to flirt with him but he doesnt do it back its as if he doesn't like it or he doesnt realize I'm flirting.but lately he has not been calling me or emailing me I call and he doesnt answer I leave messages but nothing. I spoke to him the other night and he rushed me off the phone cause he had date WHAT THE HELL!! Ive known this guy for over 10 yrs we were high school sweet hearts I dont know what to do should I just forget about a possiable relationship help me I need advise.
2006-10-11 17:05:40 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you and him have different ideas about what you might want from one another. Try giving him some space for a while. If he does have a new girlfriend he may feel awkward carrying on the intimate friendship with you for now. Give him his space and see what happens. In the mean time, maybe try to see some other men, or just hang out with your girlfriends. Take care!
2006-10-11 17:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have feelings for him. He either doesn't know or he doesn't want to go out with you yet. He might just like you and be too shy to tell you. Who knows? Maybe he feels uncomfortable talking to you because he cares. He might have even made up the date so he wouldn't have more to say then "yeah" or "I-I-I-I". So my advice is to tell him haow you feel. Chances are, you and he will be going out again eventually.
2006-10-12 00:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come to you.... join in on the mind games. Trust me, if he thinks he can't have you it will get his attention. Also, there could be the possiblity that he met someone else and isn't comfortable talking to you about it, for fear of hurting your feelings? Back off and see what happens.
2006-10-12 00:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that you probably pushed to hard. he probably doesn't want to date someone he has been close to. if you were high school sweethearts then maybe he is not ready to go down memory lane right now. just let him know you are ok with just being friends. good luck
2006-10-12 00:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Boo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be married or else you are not sexually attractable to him
2006-10-12 00:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by navyby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋