the stronger she gets the more he brings her down.
2006-10-11 17:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because in order to protect his fragile ego -- he MUST of necessity destroy the spirit and emotions of the one he has DELUDED himself into believing he "loves".
In reality -- this is a form of domination and control -- since he has no control over his own life, can't deal with his lack of potency or abilities to manage in the real world, then he DEFLECTS his incompetencies onto the partner of the moment, dragging her down and breaking her down so that she can NOT find the space or time to OBSERVE and THINK --
HEY -- I am BETTER than that -- and then she gets up and LEAVES the loser behind.
2006-10-11 17:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, because they don't feel good about theirself, so they think it makes them big ike's. They will keep putting you down if you let them, so they think there in control. They don't like it when your stronger, they feel less of a man. Usually there not happy with thereself and nobody will make them happy. It's a shame.
2006-10-11 17:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The flip side is why do some women look for loosers to dominate them. It seems to be individual choice as you have the power to change your situation if you desire.
Personally, I prefer strong women as I don't want to have to make every decision for her. I want someone who can think on her own and contribute to the relationship.
2006-10-11 17:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How does that work? Women always manage to break a man's spirit, his will and doom his soul to marital damnation until she cheats and decides to dump him.
When do we ever get a chance to bring HER down?
2006-10-11 17:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, tradition. . .thank God some still understand the true purpose of marriage.. . .keeping women down and giving men a place to pump their love sticks when they can't find any fresh meat. . .sigh
2006-10-11 17:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Colin R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because if she get too independant his weakness will show because he fears she want need him any more and find someone else, instead of realizing she doing it for both of them and not pushing her to leaving
2006-10-11 17:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by martha g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are in that situation then i strongly suggest you get out because you shouldn't allow anyone to make you feel inferior
2006-10-11 17:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by gsxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋