2006-10-11 16:25:28 · 26 answers · asked by Princess Guerra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to understand each other's plans and goals. He isn't going to change so if marriage (and kids) are important to you then find someone with those plans. Don't allow years to go by because life is too short.
2006-10-11 16:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with some of the other posters that it partially matters exactly why he wont marry u...also if he has any serious intentions to ever marry u...if not, and this is important to u, then definitely move on...
but if this is the only problem u guys have and are otherwise happy, i think u should stay with him and just enjoy the relationship for a while longer...if ur pressuring him to be married, hell only resist harder or marry u when thats not really what he wants...and wouldnt u prefer he do that simply because he loves and not as part of some ultimatum?...
2006-10-11 18:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no definite answer, because I know of some couples who lived happily ever after even without the blessings of marriage. And yet I also witnessed husband and wife who spend thousands of money on their wedding day only to find out that they were'nt meant for each other and went on separate lives. In a relationship, marriage does not guarantee that you will have a happy relationship. But I believe that it is LOVE THAT WILL HOLD TWO HEARTS TOGETHER through thick and thin.
2006-10-11 16:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on if he is just not ready yet or if he does not want to period. You don't need to settle for anything so if your goal is to get married and he doesn't want to then get out now. If he is just not ready and dragging his feet give him some more time and he will come around. I have been in a relationship for four and half years and we aren't engaged yet. But where you are in your life makes a difference too. We are both in school and doing the long distance thing so it is best for us to wait until we are more settled.
Most important don't settle! Go for what you want!
2006-10-11 16:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totally depends on why he wont marry you. Is he waiting until you and he have both finished school? Have you even talked about marriage?
Personally, I wouldn't even think of proposing to a girl until we had been together 2 or 3 years. That whole "Til death do you part" thing has me kind of nervous. My family lives a real long time.
2006-10-11 16:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Akfek_Branford 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At some point you are going to have to say bye. Because it shouldn't have to take a man that long to marry you. What he doesn't think you are worth marrying. I know if you put your foot down he will come around
2006-10-11 16:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Feelsolost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no intention of marrying, yes maybe it's time to say good-bye, but if it's just not the right time in his life than you have to choose whether he is worth the wait or not.
2006-10-11 16:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me for using this old saying, but, "why should he buy the cow, if he's getting the milk free?"
Unless you're happy the way things are now, and I don't think you'd be asking this question if you were, then yes, I think it's certainly time to move on to someone who is available to give you the level of commitment that you deserve.
2006-10-11 16:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! What is his problem? Did you guys talk about why he doesn't want to get married?
There is a crude saying which I really despise but I think its a good one that wakes a women up about these type of things,and spurs her to take action:
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
2006-10-11 16:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i swear he appeared like a common scorpio! did he have any scorpio effect by using any probability??? by way of fact standard gemini, the only i comprehend and heard off memories did not extremely acted like that. they have that concepts-set of jealousy and controlling yet in no way that critically extreme. besides, that's confusing if he's the only that's save breaking it up and you are the only that's save coming back. come on, he have been given used to it! each time he's mad, genuinely he will use that tactic when you consider that he's for specific which you'll be coming back. i propose, i'm additionally in dating with gemini guy and that i comprehend a great sort of gemini guy and that they in no way acted this stupid although when you consider which you already desperate this, save it organization. do not attempt to return back at him and stay your existence fortunately..... if he extremely extremely understand after this which you're significant he will come back and do each little thing he ought to as a guy to win you back. have some dignity ok~~~ :) stable success fellow Scorpio lady
2016-10-16 02:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋