so i got a text from my boyfriends phone at 4 in the morning, and it said "yeah you are, your so beautiful." We hadn't been having a conversation, it was just out of the blue! Don't you think he had been saying it to someone else? Cuz i sure as hell do!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-11 16:29:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THE TEXT CAME OUT OF NOWHERE!
2006-10-11 16:31:45 · update #1
Ouch, i think you were the uninteded recipient of a flirt. Start questioning yourself as to how much you love him. Definitely ask him about it.
2006-10-11 16:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by wudbiser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him on it. Show him the text on your phone. If he fumbles for an excuse, you probably caught him in a lie. Ask to see the text records on his phone if you don't believe him (though if you are wrong, then you are the one in trouble
However, there is the chance that you are taking that sentence totally out of context. You don't know what was said before or after it. Maybe he was drunk to text you something that came out wrong. Maybe it was something he sent you a while back and you are only just getting it now (cell phone networks eat texts from time to time).
Or maybe he is cheating on you. You need to gather a bit more evidence before you hang him out to dry I think.
2006-10-11 23:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Akfek_Branford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it...why is the first thought he's messin with someone else? maybe he was dreaming about you, woke up and texted you. why don't you ask him if he tried to text you....your phone said he called but you didn't get the message ...something like that. I know I send little love texts to my woman...when I have one....it's a very romantic gesture. Tells them your thinking about them.
2006-10-11 23:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that you are a women they are all crazy as hell,a man trys to do some thing nice and a women thinks there something up.Cant please one,A woman has all the pu$$y in the world they have 3/4 the money and still have something to bit(h about.
2006-10-11 23:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way it is phrased, it sounds like it is a text in a continuing conversation. It looks like he was texting with some girl (or guy) before and this was a line he was writing next. Only problem is it made its way to you.
Could have gone like this
him- "Hey there sexy."
girl- "Who me? I'm don't think I am sexy."
him- "yeah you are, your so beautiful."
2006-10-11 23:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably drunk and didn't realize that he text the wrong number and got you by mistake. Sorry, but he was absolutely chatting with someone else. On the bright side, at least you know now what a @^@%$*()& he is...
2006-10-11 23:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! WAY TO JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS! That is a big problem these days (by both men and women). He is your boyfriend right? That means you should be able to talk to him about it. Maybe he thought he was talking to you for some reason. I must admit that it doesn't look good for him, but if he is your boyfriend that means that you have to have some trust in him right? Go talk to him about it, then use your best judgement.
2006-10-11 23:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by ineedalotofyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.. oh wow.. that's just crazy... yes I do believe that he has been saying that to someone else..
unless he planned it because that's what I do.. I sometimes set text messages to be sent out early in the morning around 7am so they could be sent out to my g/f... but I highly doubt your b/f set that up for you... you should talk to him..
2006-10-11 23:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by betodemise46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because if he had been having a text conversation with somebody else, he would have just been hitting 'reply' each time, and it would never have reached your phone in the first place.
2006-10-11 23:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm... Could he have been dreaming that you texted him? Don't ruin your relationship over something you have no clue about. Make sure it was what it was. Good luck though. And if he was saying it to someone else, dump his ***.
2006-10-11 23:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by Ben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he was. Obviously some chic was sending him pics and he was commenting on them. How old is he? Under 30? There's your answer. Young guys play the field, your not his only chic. Either date older guys or get used to it.
2006-10-11 23:33:30 · answer #11 · answered by Millionare Club 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋