I had astudy group 2 years ago with a couple of people, including this one guy. Well, recently, I went to a frat party and I saw the guy there, who now has a long-term girlfriend. He basically admitted to me that he had a crush on me for 2 years (I only had that one class with him) and that he had wanted to ask me out but didn't have the guts. Then he said he used to look at me in class and gawk at me, thinking I was mysterious because of my fascination with literature.
TWO YEARS LATER! I don't get it. He never called me or anything, and didn't even attempt to ask me out. Yet he admits this 2 years afterwards? And then basically he took care of me while I was drunk and almost puking. Why would he admit this 2 years later?
2006-10-11 16:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had no idea he had a crush on me whatsoever. He didn't attempt to make a move or anything.
2006-10-11 16:27:47 · update #1
Then he said that my eyes were so big and beautiful and the main focus of my face...and basically asked me what shampoo I used because it smelled good...
2006-10-11 16:28:46 · update #2
He was secretive because he correctly knows that many beautiful girls like you cut your teeth on hearts like his.
So he kept his feelings secret on sheer probability. Very smart of him to play the numbers on protecting his soul -- he may even grow wise in the long run.
2006-10-11 16:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys can be too shy or afraid to ask a girl they like out, but they oftentimes grow out of it some time later as they get older and finally get the courage to admit it to you. In your case, he seems to be a bit inconsiderate in mentioning this to you when he currently has a long-term girlfriend. I don't quite know that it should be mentioned when nothing can come of it, but perhaps he just wanted to get it off his chest.
2006-10-11 23:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that guys hate (probably girls too, but I'm a guy and it feels like a "guy" thing) is loose ends, unfinished business. He saw an opportunity to gain a little closure on this one by telling you how he was feeling. He probably doesn't even realize how this would send you mind a-going. To him, he's feeling all good and now you're asking yourself all these questions about something that happened two years ago (now THAT's a girl thing).
2006-10-11 23:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well- he admired you from distance and maybe was too shu= and now has a girlfriend= was he sober when he told you this??? and where was his gf?????Lots of guys gawk and practically jerk there necks out of place trying to look at a girl!! Lol- maybe it was the alcohol talking too- D
2006-10-11 23:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are more sensitive than girls...thats the fact..they can be so cool and hippy...but deep inside, they are sensitive like us, girls...the reason why he might have revealed this two years later, and when you are drunk was because he didn't have the guts to express his true feelings....he might have been afraid that you would reject him....why don't you try asking him directly? maybe something might come out frm the conversation?
2006-10-11 23:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by cuteangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plauseable deniability.
2006-10-11 23:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hm......
2006-10-11 23:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by maryamok_haris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋