Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

what do think about long distance relationship?do they work out?what do u do if u really like a girl and shes far away?stay with her?or what?because theres this one girl ilike and she is hot and we've been talking on the phone alot and i dont think ill ever see her again but at the same time i dont want to lose her too what do i do?

2006-10-10 05:54:33 · 13 answers · asked by MUSTANG SALEEN 281 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 05:54:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is being abused by his parents, but he has siblings and I really dont want them to move away or be removed from the home and put somewheres else. Is there a way that I can have them removed from the home and placed into a family home that is nearby?

Or is there a way that the law can enforce anger management on the parents?

I dont know shoot some ideas, I really need the information.

The laws might be different so maybe if this helps, this is in the florida district.

2006-10-10 05:54:15 · 16 answers · asked by Bob T 1 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and he believes that he was my first. I feel like I have been living a lie. What's the best way to approach this and not living him devastated.

2006-10-10 05:54:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think she is playing hard to get but i could be wrong. ??

2006-10-10 05:53:35 · 16 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Singles & Dating

When a women break up with a man, the worst the man does is yell at her and quit being friends with her. But when a man breaks up with a women, they go to these obsessive quests for revenge. My friends x-girlfriend stuck a hose through his window and cause 15000 dollars in damage. she also spray painted liar on his truck even though he never cheated on her. I saw a girl once post pictures of her ex-boyfriend all over his neighborhood saying he was a child molester. Both girls were arrested. The first one had to pay for the damages and the other did a little time. is it really worth it???????

2006-10-10 05:53:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm really cool once you get to know me i love them in good shape and with a good attitude!

2006-10-10 05:52:57 · 6 answers · asked by hot_sexy_mex 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband keeps me, at the very least, on the verge of ecstasy most of the time. My ex-husband was not very interested in sex. I felt that this was my punishment for being active before marriage. Found out he was more interested in men. Still, it caused me to go through my 30's selabite. I was a faithful, naive wife who thought he wasn't turned on by me because I was flat chested, 32B. I had never met a man who cared about my pleasure. It was always about them. I was under the impression that that's the way it's supposed to be. On the other hand, my newly wedded husband had never been with a woman who cared about making love. I cannot comprehend this, since he is the most fantastic love maker in the world! He has never had a woman that wanted so VERY MUCH to please him, so he can't tell me what he wants. Since I've never known a man that wasn't "Wam bam", I don't know what to do. He always says he's pleased, but I SCREAM! How can I give him that much pleasure? With his care Im a 36C.

2006-10-10 05:52:43 · 22 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 05:52:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

anyone know about custody cases or went thru one?
OK I HAVE BEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT FOR 10 1/2 YRS HE HAD PARTIAL HE ONLY WANTED TO BE WITH HIS KIDS ON HIS WEEKEND VISITS NEVER WANTED THEM MORE...HE WAS ONLY PAYING ME 50 AWEEK FOR FOUR BOYS FOR 10 YRS ,THE REASON WHY I ONLY RECIEVED 50 AWEEK WAS CAUSE HE TOLD ME HE WOULD GIVE UP HIS RIGHTS TO OUR BOYS I DIDNT WANT TO BE THE BLAME FOR THE KIDS NOT TO HAVE THERE FATHER SO I AGREED TO WHAT HE WANTED TO PAY .SO I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED FOR CUSTODY I GOT CUSTODIAL AND HE GOT PARTIAL HE AGREED TO EVERYTHING.IT WAS EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERYOTHER WEEKEND .WELL HE STUCK WITH IT FOR ABOUT A MONTH TOLD ME HE WAS DROPPING WEDNESDAYS CAUSE IT WAS TO MUCH.I GUESS IT WAS INTERFERING WITH HIS SINGLE LIFE I DIDNT CARE I HAD MORE TIME WITH MY SONS...I DID EVERYTHING DOC APPTS DENTIST ,ER RUNS WHEN THE BOYS GOT HURT I WOULD CALL HIM AND TELL HIM I WAS AT THE ER HE SAID WELL JUST CALL ME I AM SORRY BUT IF IT WAS ON THE OTHER END MY BUTT WOULD BE THERE .(RUNNING OUT OF ROOM WILL BE WRITING MORE)

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17 hours ago
LIKE I DID EVERYTHING AND STILL DO I TOOK CARE OF ALL OUR SONS NEEDS CLOTHES ,FOOD,SHELTER,DOCS,TOOK CARE OF THEM WHEN THEY WERE SICK WENT WITH MY ONE SON TO ALL HIS SURGERIES ETC....HIS FATHER DIDNT GO CAUSE HE SAID HE COULDNT GET OFF WORK TO BE THERE BUT THEN THE WEEK AFTER HIS FATHER WENT WITH HIS GF AND HER SON TO GET HIS FOOT CHECK BUT COULDNT BE THERE FOR HIS SONS SURGERY ON HIS KNEE AND IT WAS BAD.THIS IS THE FATHER AND GF THAT ACCUSED MY SON OF FAKING HIS INJURY WHOM HAD TO HAVE MAJOR SURGERY,ALSO THERE FATHER GRAB OUR SON BY THE THROAT AND YES I REPORTED TO THE DOCTORS AND SO ON HOPING THEY WOULD REPORT IT CAUSE I AM AFRAID OF MY EX HE WAS ABUSIVE TO ME WHILE WE WERE MARRIED I STILL FEARED HIM SO I WENT TO THE DOCS KNOWING THEY HAD TO REPORT IT .I DIDNT NEGLECT MY SON I HAD HIM CHECKED OUT AND TOLD THE DOC.JUST SO EVERYONE DOESNT THINK I AM A ROTTEN MOM I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING MY SON .WELL MY TWO YOUNGER SONS STOPPED SEEING THERE FATHER SO HE STOPPED PAYING HIS CONTIN

17 hours ago
SO WHEN HE STOPPED PAYING HIS BIG 50 AWEEK WHICH DID NOT RAISE FOUR SONS I WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND SUED HIM FOR THE SUPPORT MY SONS NEEDED AND DESERVED WELL HE TURNED AROUND AND IS NOW TRYING TO SUE ME FOR CUSTODY WE WENT TO A COURT MEDIATOR WHO ORDER A HOME EVALUATION ...WE BOTH HAVE TO PAY 1050 WELL I PAID MY HALF ,HE DIDNT WE ARE GOING INFRONT OF A JUDGE THIS FRIDAY CAUSE HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT,,,,THIS IS A MAN WHOM IS STILL MARRIED TO HIS SECOND WIFE WHOM HE LEFT ONE NITE WENT TO A BAR AND NEVER WENT HOME LEFT HER WITH THERE 2 YR OLD SON AND SHE WAS 5 MONTHS PREGNANT...NOW HE IS SHACKED UP WITH HIS GF AND HER 2 KIDS IN A 2 BEDROOM HOME SHE HAS A 5 YR OLD GIRL WHOM SLEEPS IN THE BEDROOM WITH HIM AND HIS GF AND THE GF'S SON HAS HIS OWN ROOM HE IS 10 AND MY BOYS ARE ON THE LIVING ROOM FLOOR ...THEN WHEN HE GETS HIS SECOND SET OF CHILDREN FROM HIS WIFE THEY SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY EX AND HIS GF ALSO THEY ARE 3YR OLD AND 1.

17 hours ago
MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM THE WAY HE FELT NOW THEY DONT SPEAK MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING FROM WHAT HE DID TO ME AND MY 18 YR OLD TOLD HIM HE REMEMBERS WHEN HE GRABBED HIM BY THE THROAT CAUSE HE WANTED TO QUIT BASEBALL,AND HE TOLD HIM HE REM WHEN HE GRABBED ME AND ALMOST CHOKED ME TO DEATH INFRONT OF HIM HE SAID DAD IF I WOULDNT HAVE SCREAMED YOU WOULD HAVE KILLED HER ,WELL MY EX TURNED TO HIM AND SAID YOUR MOM BEAT ME MY SON LAUGHED AND SAID DAD YOUR 6 1 300 PDS.MOM IS 5 6 160 AND I WAS THERE I REMEMBER IT ALL ...THEN HE TOLD MY EX ALL HE CARED ABOUT WAS HIS NEW GF AND HER KIDS WELL HE TOLD HIM THATS RITE THEY ARE MY LIFE NOW I HAVE NO OTHER LIFE THEN THEM .WELL THEY HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE FATHERS DAY....THEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF ABOUT HOW HE FELT TELLING HIS DAD HE DOESNT THINK ITS RIGHT FOR HIM TO TRY TO TAKE THEM FROM SOMEONE WHOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR THEM AND THE WOMEN WHO TOOK CARE OF US ON HER OWN FOR 10 YRS WITH NO HELP FROM YOU .

17 hours ago
I WAS SCARED WHEN MY 14 YR OLD TOLD HIM OFF I SAID MAYBE YOU SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT THEY MIGHT USE THAT AGAINST ME MY SON SAID MOM HOW CAN THEY I SAID HOW I FELT...SO I CALLED MY ATTORNEY SHE SAID YOU CAN NOT CONTROL WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR 14 YR OLDS MOUTH...WELL HE DIDNT PAY HIS HALF OF THE HOME EVAL SO HE IS BEING HELD IN CONTEMPT OF COURT ,,I PAID MINE THAT SHOULD GO TO SHOW I LOVE MY KIDS AND WILL DO ANYTHING FOR THEM ....I WENT TO ALL THE SCHOOL MEETINGS AND WENT TO GET ALL MY BOYS HELP THAT THEY NEEDED ,,I HAVE TWO SONS WITH ADHD SO THEY STRUGGLE SO I GO TO THE SCHOOLS GET HELP OF COURSE HIS FAVORITE SAYING IS THEY DONT NEED ANY HELP THEY ARE JUST LAZY AND THEY NEED A FOOT IN THERE ***.

WELL ON XMAS VACATION LAST YR I ASKED FOR ANY KIND OF HOMEWORK THAT WILL HELP WITH THERE GRADES YOU KNOW MAKE UP WORK IT WAS STACKED FOR ALL MY SONS SO I ASKED AHOLE IF HE COULD HELP YEA HE HELPED I GOT A CALL FROM THE SCHOOL STATING THEY WOULDNT BE GETTING CREDIT I SAID WHY NOT

17 hours ago
CAUSE THE SCHOOL SAID THERE FATHER DID IT FOR THEM THE ONLY TIME IN 10 YRS I ASKED FOR HELP THAT IS WHAT I GOT...I AM SCARED I AM A GOOD MOM I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DO NOT GO OUT PARTYING UNLIKE HIM I STAY AT HOME WITH MY SONS THAT IS MY PLACE THAT IS WHERE I BELONG..THEY ARE MY LIFE....SO DO YOU THINK HE HAS ANY CHANCE...THANKS

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1 day ago
IM SORRY BUT I NEVER DID ANYTHING WRONG HE SUED ME CAUSE I SUED HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ..HE ONLY PAID ME 5O AWEEK FOR 10 YRS FOR FOUR BOYS THERE OLDER AND THEY NEED MORE ..I DID IT ON MY OWN FOR 10 1/2 YRS IF HE THINKS HIS BIG 50 AWEEK RAISED HIS SONS HE NEEDS TO GET A REALITY CHECK

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3 hours ago
MY KIDS AGES ARE 16 14 13 SORRY IF I DIDNT ADD THAT,,,THANKS

2006-10-10 05:52:08 · 10 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hes a very close co worker with hubby...
im not sure what to do....we have gone too far....dont think me as a whore.....there are things which canot be explained....
contact me.....through yahoo...

2006-10-10 05:51:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anita Zultan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A few weeks ago, I met a guy and we went on a few dates. I really liked him, so i introduced him to my friends. Then he went funny on me and stopped returning my calls. The same weekend my best friend went down with a migraine and was "very ill." Turns out she had him round at hers. However, I didn't find this out until she brought along her "new boyfriend" to a mutual friends birthday party 2 weeks ago. They are still seeing each other now. Am i right to be annoyed?

2006-10-10 05:50:47 · 96 answers · asked by celtic_butterfly1983 1 in Friends

I just saw my ex-boyfriend today after a month. Its so painful and I am really depressed. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over this? It makes me want to cry so bad but I am trying to resist. Can someone please help me. Thanks in advance.

2006-10-10 05:48:56 · 28 answers · asked by Justine 3 in Singles & Dating

one of my friend (whoz gone to uk a month ago) has not botheres to get back in touch or even reply .. i dont knw wht went wrong.... he supposed to be my relle goood frnd.... then y this behaviour?? he 100% wont take so much time to adjust there.... (hes gone for studies) i knw he may be busy....... but soooo busy tht he doesnt care at all and forget tht some1 out there is waiting eagerly for his replies??

2006-10-10 05:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for my mother Sylvia Jane Sturgeon. She would be 74 or 75. If any info available please email me direct camelian35@yahoo.com

2006-10-10 05:46:57 · 4 answers · asked by Tina R 1 in Family

ok my dad dosn't know i started my period!! so what do i tell him

2006-10-10 05:46:40 · 17 answers · asked by kelly 2 in Family

some people are not interested in being friends with other people??? (I have been talking to lots of people recently in my class, job, clubs, and wherever I can find people). and it seems that they only want acquantance. They ask me for help in class and I help them and I ask them for help, and they help me. and some of the people never open up after talking to the same people after 2 months. They never start the conversation. I usually have to but most of the conversations are really short though.

Why is that??? If it has to do with trust issues, how can I get a person to trust me if they never open up with their issues? How can I get a good true friend? I feel like just quitting on talking to new people since they never seem to be a very good true friend (either not that responsive like "hi, did you do your homework?", "no", then that's the end of the conversation and that person never start talking to me though. or acquantance (person asks me for help and i ask them for help)

2006-10-10 05:46:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a son who will be 15 next month. He is causing me a lot of heartache and I feel I have lost him. His behaviour has become appalling it includes, smoking, staying out late, thieving from family, lying continuously and now playing truant from school. His attitude is morose, angry and very rude. He snaps at his younger brother when he says hello to him. I need advice in how to sort this out what sort of reaction should I be giving and what punishments for the truanting ect. In particular he doesn/t know I know he wasnt at school today yet so how do I deal with it when he comes home. Any advice would be grately appreciated. He has little contact with his father as he lives away and sees him about 2 or 3 times a year and no phone calls but although he seems to get on with my partner of 9 years he has told his friends he cant stand him. Help !

2006-10-10 05:46:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

but i abuse him more psychically and he abuse me more mentally and then we make up within 5 minutes i lost my strongest love for him but i still love him and want to be with him and dont want to lose him what do we do?

2006-10-10 05:45:22 · 23 answers · asked by Brina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you do to get over that

2006-10-10 05:44:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 05:44:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A girl i know found out someone they are now involved with,( that was in love with me in the past) still thinks he has a thing for me even though i told her nothing is going on anymore. A mutual friend told to me that she vents her anger/jealousy using answers and then answers question with multiple screen names and signs them with my name or things significant to my family so that when he signs (he uses answers to) on and reads them he thinks it is me to get something started. I wish to do nothing to hurt this person and wish she knew this. I am not perfectand made mistakes in the past but I just want to move on and wish she would just ask me any questions she might have. I just discovered this sight a month ago by suggestion and try to help people not hurt or belittle them. Do you think I should contact her? Thanks.

2006-10-10 05:41:53 · 8 answers · asked by ElegantSweetie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have been together about a year. He said something that really touched me. he said I get more and more beautiful everyday and that i was the most beautiful girl in the world. what does this say about how he feels about me?

2006-10-10 05:40:33 · 18 answers · asked by california gurlie poo 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 05:40:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Anyway, I am engaged to this guy. I had a son prior to our relationship and we have a 3 month old daughter together. My finace is always yelling at my Son who is 3 years old. He told me he doesn't like my son. The way he yells seems so hateful. My son is pretty good for being a toddler. I stick up for my son and keep him always close to me....which infuriates my fiance. He hates that I always have to rescue my son. My finace just recently lost his job (cause it moved overseas) so he stays at home for now and takes care of our daughter. But I have to keep my son in daycare full-time when I am at work....cause I don't want him to continue to treat him like that. He yells at him for EVERYTHING. Then I yell at my fiance to leave him alone. My son seems so depressed and he is only 3. I tell him how much I love him and I give him lots of hugs and kisses. I just feel so bad for him.....his Dad barely see's him....so he probably feels unwanted. What should I do? I can't just leave my fiance, cause I would be homeless with 2 kids.

2006-10-10 05:39:54 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am Catholic and have been chatting to a Hindu male in India everday for the past 9 weeks. At first it was general chat but then started to develop feelings for each other.We are both in marriages, and were not unhappy or looking for someone else, but now we are both desperately in love. Can it work? We also speak on phone each day and have sent photos, gifts etc. Has anyone else been in similar position?

2006-10-10 05:39:43 · 36 answers · asked by stuck 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 05:39:31 · 10 answers · asked by Bubbles 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Whether it is work, home, marriage, or just life.

2006-10-10 05:39:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a mother of two girls and I'm also a wife. I recently lost a lot of weight and I feel that I am almost at a point where I can actually be proud of my body and I want to do something that I have always thought of doing. I want to strip but I know that my husband will kill me. I stand 5'10" tall and at the present time, I weigh 195lb. But if you look at me you would never be able to guess how much I weigh. I carry my weight well and when I put on heels, I look even smaller. I just need to tone up a few places and I'll be good to go.
i was thinking about taking a trip out of town with my girlfriends and while I was there, I will try it out. I don't want to tell my husband and that's where you come in at. What do you think I should do? I don't plan on doing it on a regular basis, I have just always wanted to do it and I think that in a few more weeks, my body will be ready! Should I or shouldn't I strip for one weekend and never mention it to my husband?

2006-10-10 05:39:23 · 31 answers · asked by wilsonhutchison04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was 34 I met someone in a neighborhood bar and hit it off immediately. Turned out he was only 20. We've been in a serious relationship for just over a year and we are very happy. However, everyone in our neighborhood has something to say about us (even now) friends and family alike! How could me make people understand that we are not looking at our ages but our feelings????

2006-10-10 05:39:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships