Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

2006-10-10 23:27:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u find out if someone is cheating on their boyfriend without making it seem obvious?

2006-10-10 23:25:42 · 3 answers · asked by skittles06 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do because i love them both my wife i have been with for a little time about 2 years but about 6 months ago things went down hill because her daughter came on to me and i well i had sexual relations with her and i like them both and i want to keep things the way they are i like having two women how do i do this and not get caught by the wife?

2006-10-10 23:25:05 · 10 answers · asked by josh l 1 in Singles & Dating

or are you still searching for that element to make you whole?

2006-10-10 23:22:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 23:21:13 · 14 answers · asked by okoya o 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got married in July 2006. I have lived with my husband for 2 1/2 years. We are both in our late 30's. I have two children (17 and 15) and he has one (9). My question is this, his first wife died 7 years ago and her name is still on most of the bills, etc. My name is not on the deed to the house any important insurance papers etc. I have just recently found this out after we switched all of our accounts and monies. I have told him how this makes me feel and he simply says "I have not had a chance to change it" Is this a lame excuse or what. I did not know his first wife but from what I hear she was the love of his life. I don't feel that I should be reminded of this everyday. I am good to him and to his child. The family as a whole gets along very well. I just don't feel like I am special and that he is not willing to let go of the past, am I right? What do I do? Thank you any help.

2006-10-10 23:19:49 · 22 answers · asked by kelsey 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my story..ermmm i dunno how to start + im not really good in english...so i try my best..
i have bf named "A" but he seldom call me and i think that is over..at the same time,i knew this another guy named "L" who care's for me and he ask me to be his gf..then i say yes...after two weeks, "A" call's me and he miss me and still want me..he apologies for not callin me...he ask for second chance... so i broke up with "L" just to be with "A".i didnt mean to hurt "L"s feelin... and now "L" and i became a distant friend..i was so sad..i dont know what to do now...and now, "A" try to avoid me...i regret what i did to "L"...and now i realize that "L" is better than "A"...pls tell me what to do...how to heal my relationship with "L"???

2006-10-10 23:18:20 · 9 answers · asked by Miz Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Because iv been chatin to a guy for sumtime now im mad about him and cant wait to meet him can you fall for sumone you av never meet??

2006-10-10 23:16:52 · 29 answers · asked by Mea 2 in Singles & Dating

The Ex-husband has vandalised my current partner's car while he was at my parent's house (where i live). I cannot move out and the ex literally lives right around the corner from my parents.
It's a country area so i cannot go far without a car (which i cannot afford, nor rent for living elsewhere!)
Anyone got any suggestions? OTHER then 'braining' the ex?

2006-10-10 23:16:16 · 12 answers · asked by BlackCat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 23:15:20 · 4 answers · asked by DENISE G 1 in Friends

we have been married for two years and have got one child,ever since i had my child my husband he has been acting weard, we don't talk any more as well as sex it's not the same,all we do it's arguing all the time sometimes he tells me world that makes me think why is he telling me this?he says i don't fell like having sex at all, i like speding time with your sister she is more fun,that's makes me fell so low.when we met fo the first time after few months i got pregnant and he said because he was no ready i should have abortion, i did it and it was very painfull,so just last week we had an argument and i sked him i love u i have done everything for u even abortion and he told me i didn't send u to get an abortion. that was it i think he doesn't love me any more and i asked him to move out because we have been figting each other and i dont want to bring up my son in that kind of lifestyle.am not perfect av'e got my mistakes as well but i have gone through so much with this man,

2006-10-10 23:14:11 · 11 answers · asked by Nancyee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having a hard time with this boy! I know i posted other questions on here about this. But I just don't know what esle to do. This guy sent me a message using my closest friend's msn thing! anyway, my ex boyfriend keep on abusing me in some way. He yells at me, calling me names! He threatened to get a whole bunch of people after me, he said he's gonna do that! this message that this guy sent me, it says it's not from my exboyfriend or my closest friend. But this guy was telling me off in the message and everything! He called me a , which my exboyfriend called me 2 days ago. This guy called me ugly! Which my ex boyfriend called me , he said that was one of the reasons he broke up with me. There's a bunch of clues that my ex boyfriend sent that message! But i don't really want to blame him for sending the message if it's not even him. i might have an enemy i don't even know about, in the message the guy said "you dont know and you never will" Do you think it could my ex bf?

2006-10-10 23:12:46 · 7 answers · asked by Kayla B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just wanna to find out how can a woman knowing that a man is married and have kids still "go out" with him for many years than willingly want to become his 2nd wife saying that she will spend 10 days a month with him while the 1st family get 20 days!! Then when the 1st wife disagree asked for divorce she happily takes over!

2006-10-10 23:12:38 · 10 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what qualities do you like in a person and what impresses you?no physical aspects please.

2006-10-10 23:12:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a crush on someone and we are alone in the park I tell him that I have a crush on him and he laught and the next day he is crying because of his low grade and I comfort him. By the next week he never notic me even a bit. My question is why is he talking to me? is he mad on me?

2006-10-10 23:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by megz 2 in Singles & Dating

um .. ok . whenever he sees me , he'll start scratching his head , and he'll blush and try to start a topic with him . i like him very much . and he'll look at me all the time . and whenever our eyes meet , he look away shyly and start blushing and smiling to himself .... if he likes me . should i confess ?

2006-10-10 23:04:12 · 18 answers · asked by precious moments babe 2 in Singles & Dating

Want to try to increase my wife's sex drive. What are some suggestions on natural herbs, etc.. in raising her sex drive

2006-10-10 23:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by ACE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 23:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Delle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a tech-savy friend whose 16th birthday is coming. I am wondering what should I get for him. He already has a computer , handphone..and much more games than me (like need for speed, counterstrike etc..) I am thinking of a watch (which he already has btw) but decided to come here for opinions first. Any other ideas? Thanks in advance. Budget is around $50.

2006-10-10 23:02:34 · 7 answers · asked by jtbk 2 in Friends

of moving on what should i do go for it or leave it hes gorgeous im just scared? help !!!

2006-10-10 23:02:17 · 15 answers · asked by gorgeousofcourse18 1 in Singles & Dating

First off, its a serious question, I have been round the block a few times, but fairly new to dating again, I am interested in a certain someone we have kissed on more than one occasion, we have made it fairly obvious that we are interested but nothing else comes of it, WHAT TO DO? Kind of lost here, does she want more, is it just how she is, or is she truly interested, any help would be nice.

2006-10-10 23:01:57 · 16 answers · asked by Justcurious81 2 in Friends

I'm divorced and have 3 kids.I found the love of my life 5 years ago,and even though he is struggling to do so,he is willing to raize my boys.Since my ex is an asshole (not paying maintenance or putting any effort in to see my kids)my b wants me to keep the kids away from their father.He wants to father my children completely or not at all.Even thouh I hate my ex,my kids knows nothing about this.What will I tell them?What do I do?

2006-10-10 23:01:08 · 6 answers · asked by dive_elly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since I was a child, my mother has always put me down and made me feel usless. I have tried for as long as I can remember to please her and make her proud of me. I can never come up to her expectations. She tells family and friends that was never a good child and that she always had problems with me. I can honsetly say that I was a normal child and teenager! I had depression as a teenager and was refered to a Psychiatric nurse. I was told that I was never going to make my mum love me and that I needed to find a way to move on with my life. I am now nearly 30 and have a family of my own, who I adore. My mum dotes on my children but we still do not have a mother/daughter relationship. She puts me down at every opportunity to my face and to other people. She tells me that I am never there to support her, even though I have always made myself available, told her I love her and that I always will. I love my mother very much and and am desperate for her to love me. What do I do?

2006-10-10 22:59:40 · 12 answers · asked by deanocats 1 in Family

She is only 10. That is sick! What can I do about it?

2006-10-10 22:58:17 · 9 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 22:56:31 · 11 answers · asked by Excellent E 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend was looking through my phone and saw me. She thinks I'm weird now. Is this weird to record and what can I say to her?

2006-10-10 22:56:15 · 15 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is wrong with this picture, I am married and my wife is very distant to me. I do everything possible for this woman. Her life is not boaring by any means nessesary i help her with the house and am supportive of her in any way i can be. We are talking about divorce and she has stated on multiple times she still wants sex from me because she says its the best she has ever had. She is not living in a a shitty place i make 8,700 a month for christ sake. She is attracted to me sexually like what was stated above but..... I do not know what her problem is to consider divorce.

2006-10-10 22:52:05 · 24 answers · asked by Joe B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have had a long marriage. When we were younger my wife was very passionate and we had a very good sex life. At the same time we had frequent conflicts and were often on the verge of seperating. Although I guess I must take some responsibiltiy for these fights, I really believe most of them were instigated by my wife. She would fly in a rage without warning at the least excuse. She was constantly critical of me and our two children. When she was not doing this she was often moody and withdrawn. Before and during the time she went through menopause, her sex drive steadily diminished to a point where she now has very little interest in sex for her own enjoyment, although she still engages in sexual activity for my sake. The odd thing was that as her desire for sex declined. Her moods and behaviour improved proportionally. We now have a very peaceful and happy relationship and seldom fight over anything. She is loving and will now laugh off small annoyances that once would ha

2006-10-10 22:51:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-10 22:50:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it normal?
How should I react?

2006-10-10 22:50:06 · 36 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Marriage & Divorce