Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

Loves Oath
Sometimes I think of the outside world,without my little niece,
She was my brothers missing puzzle,but now we lost that piece.
I think about her all the time,I wish that she was here.
Couldn't sleep,couldn't morn,lost in every tear.
I can see her in my mind,playing with all of her toys.
Christmas time by the tree,followed by a happy noise.
But it almost is November,oh how I miss her so.
So I wrote this little rhyme,just to keep my oath.
But my love for you is now,and will always last forever.
So now I tell my little niece,rest well on this november.
I know it has been four years,since you left this world.
Karissa Nicole,you'll always be our lovely little girl.
So I wrote this little poem,to tell you how I feel.
Karissa Nicole,I love you now,and I always will.

Ladies,What do you think of my Oath that I keep for my little niece that died four years ago.I only posted this to keep my Oath.But I would love input on what you think about the poem

2006-10-10 20:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

My hubby spends ALL of his time on his laptop. Our relationship has come down to him making noises or saying 2 words as I walk past (while I'm trying to do 5 things at once). He neglects me, our daughter, his responsibilities. I am also expected to do all of the housework, cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, finances etc....He wants me to stay home because if I work it will cut into his time. I have no life because I have to take care of everything while he does what he wants. I was madly in love with him when we married 3 years ago. His computer thing started when I got prego 2 years ago. He is no longer the man I once loved. (I think I hate him). Do you think there is hope for our marriage? I have no income and am afraid of him getting custody in a divorce. I welcome any suggestions...thanks

2006-10-10 20:15:15 · 12 answers · asked by monkeymadness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a) if he is your boyfriend/husband

b) if he is a stranger

2006-10-10 20:13:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he lives in turkey

2006-10-10 20:11:53 · 3 answers · asked by rowena hughes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 20:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by -=_Aiah_=- 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boy friend is always saying complaints that i am not loving him... listen guys i used to talk to him everyday very sweet, calling so many lovely nick names, giving kisses through phone( we live far away), writing vast emails everyday, buying gifts for him, caring so much like had ur dinner why are u late my baby.. showing my love as much as i can, when we are alone we give kisses including french kiss or anything that he wants me to do.. i am not against anything.. but he want me to be a show off person infront of the public, he want me to give kisses and hugs infront of every guys, i am from india we are not supposed to do this things infront of public, its immoral and people will see us as bad. i like to show my love to him when we are alone, when ever i feel privacy, i will kiss him sure in public places if there isnt anyone over there so i mean i need privacy. i dont fight to him, even though he fight i make compromises , i dont say a word against him,he is not understanding me

2006-10-10 20:10:02 · 4 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my new boyfriend loves me too much but i am not able to understand my feelings. i am not able to get my x-bf out of my mind n i also dont want to hurt my new boyfriend as i care for him a lot.

2006-10-10 20:08:58 · 13 answers · asked by tina 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I (together for 5 years) did stuff up to oral sex, but no actual intercourse. Is this normal?

I mean I've had 3 boyfriends and gone on various other dates in my life. Kissed 10 guys. But only did sexual stuff with my longterm boyfriend, except I never wanted intercourse. He wanted to, but I didn't. I would physically clench up and my legs would tighten.

What does this mean? Why am I scared of sex? Do I need psychological treatment? Seriously too....I'm not religious nor am I conservative. I just don't want sex? What is wrong with me?

2006-10-10 20:08:17 · 21 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 20:07:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have no kids, and I want to leave some assets to my nieces which is close on half my estate. If I do this, my wife will still be left with plenty, even though she does not need it.

2006-10-10 20:04:14 · 16 answers · asked by hoarfen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should i go out to the bar,if he wakes he might put my lil a.s.s out for good?

2006-10-10 20:03:12 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 20:02:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will like to know if there possibility or if anyone on this opinion board has dated or gotten married via this means of answering other peoples questions,does anyone has experience.

2006-10-10 20:01:13 · 8 answers · asked by tehinse 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this girl in two of my classes that I have
a huge crush on. She sits next to me :) I don`t know if she has a boyfriend and we`re just friends that occassionaly talk.When I talk with her, I run out of things to talk about. I`m just too shy. If I ask her to go hang out to places like the mall or the theaters and rejects the offer, it will feel wierd to see each other again or even talk. I need help on what to do or any suggestions. Thank You!

2006-10-10 20:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Personality wise mainly ..... I mean you tend to whinge about everything. Too boring, too immature, too inseisitive, TOO sensitive, too clingy, commitmentphobe ..... it's difficult to understand you. Please, I will give a good dix points to the top answer on this, but explain in some detail EXACTLY what makes the perfect man

2006-10-10 19:56:50 · 20 answers · asked by Morph 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21. Lately, all my parents talk about is my 20 year old brother and how he wants to become a dentist. They are constantly bragging about him that he goes to school for hours, studies so hard to become a dentist. I'm currently working on my Bachelors Degree to become a Social Worker. My parents never brag about me and never compliment be when I do things. It's like I don't even exist. And I just recently found out that my mom had said that shes not happy with what I'm doing. It just hurts me so much. My boyfriend just tells me to ignore it because no matter what I do my parents will be like that and I should keep on doing what I'm doing no matter what they say. And no I will not talk to them becasue I'm always wrong and their right. and if my brother says something then he's always right. I feel like they are putting me down even when they aren't saying anything. Besides having this problem I have already had problems with them few months ago so it just makes me more depressed.

2006-10-10 19:56:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am an African,leaving in Nigeria,where i'm from.I really will love to marry an American lady and i tried the using the online dating thing but it didn't work ,the lady complain of distance and all.What do i do and how possible is it for me to achieve this dream of dating a white lady.Please assist me with answer,I'm 32 now and ready to settle down.

2006-10-10 19:55:08 · 4 answers · asked by tehinse 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it possible for a guy to look at hot girls in magizines with you (like in lingere magizines to help you find outfits ) without them thinking sexual thoughts about those girls?

2006-10-10 19:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Want guys to stare at their a$$?

Isn't that the point?

I get "picked" off constantly at the gym trying to read them.

2006-10-10 19:54:46 · 18 answers · asked by managuense 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 19:49:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I missed having a body to lay against in bed the most. It amazed me that something so simple could be so important to me. I went and bought a couple of those large body pillows just so I could snuggle with them, it helped!

2006-10-10 19:48:55 · 17 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Singles & Dating

Ever since i move away i haven't had friends like i had when i was in high school.It seems that everyone i meet these days is so wraped up in themselves that they just can't even fathom thinking of someone else.I hope it's not me that's the problem.I think i'm a good firend, i listen, i give fairly good advice, and i'm honest.So what does it take to make some true blue female friends?or just friends in general?Man i'm lonely!

2006-10-10 19:48:48 · 11 answers · asked by flexduty 2 in Friends

2006-10-10 19:47:34 · 8 answers · asked by Bob C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 19:46:40 · 6 answers · asked by Thomas A 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was 7 or 8 years old, my babysitter’s daughter, who was about a year older, preformed oral sex on me on a regular basis. She would also straddle me or have me get on top of her and though there was no penetration, there was a lot of genital / genital contact.

Looking back I now realize that she had almost certainly been molested and the thought makes me sick.

I have never really considered myself a victim of molestation. I have to admit that after she introduced me to "the games" I was a willing participant. But if she was a genuine victim and then initiated such act, am I any different?

I have suffered none of the "usual" symptoms of being a victim of sexual molestation; I have a rock solid marriage with a damn healthy sex life.

I am not looking for an excuse to be a victim here, some pretty horrible things have happened in my life that I could crumble behind if that was what I was looking for. I just want to recognize this for what it really might have been.

2006-10-10 19:46:19 · 10 answers · asked by David P 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

stories? I am just plain tired and need to go to sleep, but can't.

2006-10-10 19:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that's been depress lately, her boyfriend broke up with her about a year ago. She mention to me that she can't still forget about him, that she's still in love. Due to the depression she also mention that she might cut herself or do drugs to relieve the pain, she's done this things before but she stopped. Am afraid that because of the depression she'll really start doing it again!. What is some good advice I can give her???...

2006-10-10 19:42:14 · 10 answers · asked by TepG 2 in Friends

2006-10-10 19:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by anonymoususer987876 3 in Friends

Please ladies why???

2006-10-10 19:39:28 · 7 answers · asked by Man under fire 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my lover is always compalning that i am not loving him, i know how much i am showing my love to him, i talk very sweet and soft to him, even though he get angry i wont shout at him wont say anything bad, i will talk to him everyday through phone( we live far away), but he is saying u dont have love, he want me to show his love infront of others i mean in public places in streets , i am not show off like that, i always show how i love him yes infront of everyone or infront of strangers or in public i wont give frecnch kiss and all. when we are alone, we i have privacy i do eevrything.... i never want to be a show off person showing every people that how i am loving him so i dont do such thing in public places.. i am living in india, its not an european culture to hug and kiss in the road, our culture is different than any other countries.. why doesnt he understand me that how i am loving him, i am sending emails everday like vast novels, calling him everyday, giving gift when he is near

2006-10-10 19:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Marriage & Divorce