Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

I have a low-backed, sheath gown, and I'm trying to figure out what sort of bra to wear with it. I need something low-backed, strapless, and 32D. The adhesive bras I've found advise not to wear them for more than six hours at a time, and I need something I can wear 12+ hours. I also tend to have pretty sensitive skin, so I'd be nervous about chancing it.

My dress is form-fitting, and my seamstress claims that cups would show through.

I've started looking for a seamless longline bra, but the only one I've found so far is expensive, and it looks like it may not go low enough in the back.

What can I do?

dress link
http://www.chicbridal.com/silk-collection/cb4033.htm

2006-10-10 19:37:20 · 5 answers · asked by c 4 in Weddings

What is the difference between a sociopath's beloved wife and a sociopath's rape/murder victim?

Do they truly feel for their wives and children or is it just a pseudo image?

2006-10-10 19:37:12 · 3 answers · asked by ... 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

for the past few months, i have neglected my wife a bit. she complains that i never want to make love and im not giving her enough attention. shes two years older than me (shes 26). i love her loads sincerley. what can i do to make her realize that i love her dearly and what would be a nice gift to buy her or a special place to take her to?

2006-10-10 19:36:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

years ago i dated a man and i can honestly say that he is the only man i have ever been in love with. we were in the military and he was sent somewhere else on such a short notice that i didnt get to say bye. after not hearing from him for quiet sometime i was convinced that i was never going to see him again. it was heartbreaking. a few years later i got married to my husband. i love him with all my heart, but im not in love with him.
well after several years we found each other on myspace and it was like we were never apart. he told me that he was sorry for leaving like that (he didnt have a choice) and that he had thought about me a lot. he said that he still had deep feelings for me and after some time asked to see me (not for sex). i said that i thought it wasnt a good idea. this was several months ago and it has been on my mind 24/7. im not the cheating type but im scared that if i dont take this chance that i will never know. what would you do? please no derogatory replies.

2006-10-10 19:35:51 · 27 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In a discussion yesterday with my wife has admitted to looking up a ex boyfriend on the internet. He is a musician and has a web site about his band and where they are playing. Should I be worried about it? I aksed her if she would mind if i did the same and she got very defensive about it....She never anwsered my question.

2006-10-10 19:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you feel that it is easier for a guy to get a girl than it is for a girl to get a guy? Logic says that the man has to be the one who sells himself and the girl has to be the one to buy into it.

2006-10-10 19:34:35 · 16 answers · asked by Man under fire 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a curiosity. i have been involved in one that started online 2 1/2 years ago and i couldn't be happier!

2006-10-10 19:34:04 · 13 answers · asked by smomus 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Long distance relationship, UC Davis and University of Nevada, Reno. Has lied before in relationship, has cheated once, a year and a half ago.

2006-10-10 19:31:50 · 11 answers · asked by kevin d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 20, and I was in a long term relationship for 5 years. It became long distance when I came to university. Now, I have trouble committing, and I date a lot of guys, but I dont even really like them in that way. Some of them I don't even want as friends. I don't even know why I date them.

What's up with me? Also, all of my friends at college are guys, and I think most of them get the wrong idea. For example, if I hang out with them, they tell their friends it's a date, when it's not at all. We don't even touch.

I don't even know what I want...I don't want a long term relationship. I don't want a relationship really. I just don't know.

I think most girls want commitment, right? What's wrong with me? Also, I ended the long-term relationship, so it wasn't that my ex was a jerk or anything either....

2006-10-10 19:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 19:29:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does it all depend of the person? If a man has never really had to chase a girl before does this make it more hard for him to do so when he likes someone paticularly an attractive someone?

2006-10-10 19:29:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he knew too that our relationship has turn cold, but he is trying hard to keep the relationship. as for me, i know that i got no feeling for him at all, but i do not dare to open my mouth cos i am afraid he will do something silly. anyone can advised?

2006-10-10 19:28:03 · 14 answers · asked by l_littlewoman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a friend who I liked, why lie. When we first meet, I asked her out and she told me she was seeing someone, So I respected that. But every time that JERK cheated on her (Several times) she would call me crying her eyes out, and I would go and talk her through it, trying to calm her down. Next day, WELL GUESS WHAT, she would go right back to him!!! So even though I didn't mind helping her out when she needed me, I wonder, why did she choose a guy that would hurt her, vs. a guy who would give just about anything to get her love???!!!!

2006-10-10 19:26:58 · 13 answers · asked by Yash 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you live for? What do you look foward to?

2006-10-10 19:26:38 · 11 answers · asked by <3 Hawaii Baby <3 1 in Friends

Roses are Red, Violets are blue, .......................................

2006-10-10 19:26:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but how do I KNO FORSURE?
guys maybe u can help me out
me and that guy r so different, but he keeps doing things...u kno...red flags r everywhere...but i dont wanna look dumb if he doesnt feel the way i think hes feeling

2006-10-10 19:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by flowergrl0818 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 19:25:11 · 11 answers · asked by burn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I give my boyfriend oral, and he and I both enjoy it very much, but he won't give me oral. I don't know why. We never really discuss it because I don't even think about it. I don't miss it. I love intercourse, and giving him oral, and I have no problem never getting oral for myself. In fact, just the fact that he doesn't voluntarily give me the same, makes me NOT want it. If I had to ask him for it, then I would feel like he really didn't want to do it, but is just doing it to get "the chore" over with. I would not want that! I am very clean. Should I ask him if he has gone down on other women in the past, and if its just me that he won't do this, too? Or, should i just leave well enough, alone, since I am fine with what I have?

2006-10-10 19:24:05 · 25 answers · asked by Monic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do I have to tell my mother to take care of my dad?My mother and my dad were having a fight today,too bad!

2006-10-10 19:22:49 · 4 answers · asked by Sabrina Mary 1 in Family

love.

2006-10-10 19:21:09 · 26 answers · asked by Off Road Freak 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 19:21:05 · 21 answers · asked by cid 28 1 in Singles & Dating

1) LIFE
2) Balaclava Man
3) KO

The winner isssssssssssssssssssss....................

2006-10-10 19:19:51 · 16 answers · asked by LIFE ! 2 in Friends

wierd? I thought we wereall friends but now they know I like this other guy and they turn cold on me and won't chat with me anymore.

2006-10-10 19:17:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've dated guys, but I haven't really found one I felt I could care about. I usually go out for a couple dates and then ignore them without saying anything. And then when I do find one I might possibly care about, he's just as confusing and crazy as me and we aren't even dating.

2006-10-10 19:15:26 · 6 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Singles & Dating

2 years after leaving my husband, whom I have 2 children with, he told me that he and my bestfriend had sex twice during our relationship. Once while I was pregnant with our first child, and again sometime before our second child. I have moved on from him for a while now, but losing my bestfriend still hurts. Sometimes I miss her so much. She says that he lied to hurt me, but something in my heart tells me its true. I know them both too well. She has been my bestfriend and sister for over 12 years. Would it be a horrible mistake to make up with her? should I waste my time?

2006-10-10 19:14:52 · 20 answers · asked by somenameijustthoughtof 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yea, can you get diseases with just a simple kiss on the lips?

2006-10-10 19:13:33 · 14 answers · asked by teenageperson 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a persian Cowboy, I've been told by lots of women that I am a great guy!! I do the macho thing, but I'm very carring and comforting to friends when necessary. When girls need advice they come to me. BUT, they won't date me, they say they would rather be friends. Now if ya'll like a carring guy, that is not a wuss, does romantic gestures for ya'll, even composes poetry, while still being able to slice a guy in half, WHY NOT? Please tell me where I'm going wrong!!!!

2006-10-10 19:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by Yash 1 in Singles & Dating

Need something not too pricy (150-200 dollars max!) Any Creative gift ideas would be better! Thanks in advance!

2006-10-10 19:11:34 · 16 answers · asked by chispy 1 in Singles & Dating

If my ex agrees to the buy out, am I obligated to pay the realtors commision even though I am buying the house, or is there a way to cancel the realtors contract?

2006-10-10 19:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by californiarad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this was asked befor but do you or have you ever discussed your spouses sexually history? Age 36 and I've been with 2 women and my wife (35) has been with 8 men. She says she feels like a "slu*t" now because she has been with many more partners then I. Sexually she is kind of prude. Is this because she is trying to not show me the she has experiance? Is it wrong to talk about her experiances (sexuallly)? I think i would like to know what she has done sexually. Would you want to know or tell your partner?

2006-10-10 19:10:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce