for the past few months, i have neglected my wife a bit. she complains that i never want to make love and im not giving her enough attention. shes two years older than me (shes 26). i love her loads sincerley. what can i do to make her realize that i love her dearly and what would be a nice gift to buy her or a special place to take her to?
2006-10-10 19:36:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take her out for dinner at a nice restaurant. Be a gentleman. Buy her flowers. Make it her night-- just pay attention to her. And when you get home after dinner... you know what to do!
2006-10-10 19:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My idea would have been a romantic candle night dinner at home.Don't forget the champagne. Bef dinner offer her flowers. After dinner offer her a nice lacy night dress together with a card saying "sorry for neglecting you but i love you so much. You are the most wonderful wife." Spend the rest of the night with her. Use ur imagination from now.
2006-10-11 02:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as gifts jewlery always works. But what about making her something that says you really put a lot of thought into it. Like a mixed cd of songs you know she loves, or writing her a nice poem or a love letter. Take her for dinner somewhere nice (candle light always works) and then somewhere to look at the stars.
2006-10-11 02:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your such a nice guy......... she's lucky but funny us women when some loves you lots, we rearly apprieciate it so it leads to pushing the men away! Get time sit her down and speak to her and explain to her why you had distanced your self lately and how much you feel for her
You could also buy her a bag, a pair of shoes or jewery depending on what she likes most or some thing you know she loves most!.
Best of luck.
2006-10-11 02:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by kiss me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit neglecting her just because she is there, that is taking her for granted.......why would you not want to make love to her every day.......is there honestly something, anything in your life that is better than taking an hour each day to worship her?????
Don't you realize it is when we are taken for granted that other men see that and make up for it!
Wake up dude, worship her, she has put up with this **** for months from you........you better start worshipping her, you look at her as if she were your own private goddess and her body is your altar! You treat her like a goddess and she will treat you like a god, there is nothing like being worshipped by someone you love.
Quit making excuses and worship!!!
She doesn't want a gift or a night out, she wants you and your attention!
2006-10-11 02:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice gift would be for you to talk to her for a change, a nice place to take her would be to bed for a few hours of being close. She needs your attention, not your gifts.
2006-10-11 02:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the big things necessarily. Sometimes you can show your love in small ways consistantly, like helping with a chore she really dislikes, or calling her in the middle of the day to let her know that you're thinking of her, or a small bouquet for no other reason other than you want to make her smile.
Asking us what you can do to show her that you love her dearly is great but more importantly you should ask her that question; then you will not miss the mark. Good luck!
2006-10-11 02:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something she never expected. Like if once she said she would like to have a massage or a day for herself. Buy her a gift card to the mall or a gift card to the spa. Dinners are too plain for me, cook her something yourself and clean up after yourself!! ;-)
2006-10-11 02:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by nervousenergy73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance her, tell her you love her, and that she makes your life complete. Take her to her favorite place to eat. Set up a rendavous for you all. Spice things up. Do anything you feel like doing to make her happy. Do what you did for her before you were married,do to her what you did before you married to make her fall in love with you. The littlest things matter..
2006-10-11 02:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you shared, Your wife is wanting you to show her attention by your intimacy with her, not a gift purchased.
(being a female and a wife that is what I get out of her complaints.)
2006-10-11 02:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by You Matter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something special for her, buy her something that she'd like to have for long time and say you love her and take her out for dinner and do something very special together in that night!^^
2006-10-11 04:04:59 · answer #11 · answered by Oww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋