does it all depend of the person? If a man has never really had to chase a girl before does this make it more hard for him to do so when he likes someone paticularly an attractive someone?
2006-10-10 19:29:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes.. it is always nerve wrecking.. for girls and guys.. no matter how good looking the person is....
main reason is we are all scared of losing something we want.
Also we are even more scared of rejection.
2006-10-10 19:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by compsydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In fact I think it works both ways. If a man or woman is attracted to somebody, they tend to forget how attractive they themselves may be and generally get nervous about the intended target.
Again there are other factors involved like self esteem and confidence. They vary from person to person. I used to be that way when I was younger but now it does not really matter. So I guess experience plays a part as well.
Hope this helps!
2006-10-10 19:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Diem D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i believe even attractive men get nervous, it's more how you act thatn how you actually feel. Most people in these situations put on a brave act which makes them seem all cool. I think if he has never had to chase a girl, it will be hard simply because he's too used to girls chasing him. Haven't you ever seen in all those movies and books the hot guy that asks his not-so-hot friend how to get some girl he REALLY likes? Like the play, Cerano deBergerac.
2006-10-10 19:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. If you heard in your school times that both the postive poles of magnet never attracted, one has to be negative. In the same way attractive men never feel comfortable around attractive women.
2006-10-10 19:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by p_s297 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because some1's attractive...doesn't mean they're automatically confident! and im sure every person feels nervous when going after another attractive person... attractive people can be intimidatin simply because of they're looks because you know you've got competition and you know that person has encounter many situations where people would ask them out... so simply knowing that much? any person can be nervous
2006-10-10 19:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are all earthlings get nervous about meeting a new person or being around to the person we like. try to calm down and relax, just be yourself, get the convo going, always ask instead of waiting to be ask. goodluck!
2006-10-10 19:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what im asking the woman.
I can ask her about general stuff ezly....but when it comes to dating i always have a fear that since shes so hot she prolly has a huge bf whos ready to beat the crap outa me for talkin to his girl.
2006-10-10 19:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Moo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, they can be intimidating, but that's another situation in life to deal with.
2006-10-10 19:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-10 19:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by klallen197902 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...they do even though they are gorgeous,their words that are coming out of their mouth could not be smooth
2006-10-10 19:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♣valentine melons♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋