I've dated guys, but I haven't really found one I felt I could care about. I usually go out for a couple dates and then ignore them without saying anything. And then when I do find one I might possibly care about, he's just as confusing and crazy as me and we aren't even dating.
2006-10-10 19:15:26 · 6 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, what I should say is. With those other guys, I like them, and then I start finding them ugly for some odd reason, or disgusting. And I start picking at their flaws, and then I dislike them...what's wrong with me?
2006-10-10 19:15:58 · update #1
For example, this one guy just bragged all the time, and he's not even that incredible compared to other people I know who don't brag. I started disliking him, and didn't even want to be his friend. Now I screen his calls permanently.
2006-10-10 19:20:34 · update #2
Poster 4: I'm actually bicurious.
2006-10-10 19:20:56 · update #3
That;s because destiny has some one on the way for you.
see you don't go out looking to see who to care about or who will care about you.
when that special person takes your heart it will be when you least expected.
And the ones that you think is the one, is probably having your same problem.
.Destiny has someone coming around the corner,from his own destiny.
Do push your self to get in a relationship or get into one just because.
If it don't feel right then it just don't.
so go on with life as normal.
after all there is a reason why you ignore them in first place after talking to them.
So let that be the reason, don't put ugly thoughts in your mind about insecurity,
because then you will program your self to believe that you have that problem.
The reason is that its not time yet so mean while keep them as friends. and so they don't feel so bad make it clear that your friends and you date people,
you will see that when it happens you will remember this message and when it happens let me know good luck
2006-10-10 20:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by huera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, it's very possible you're dating the wrong sex. Although you don't say anything about having lesbian tendencies, I sometimes wonder when a woman constantly finds fault with a male partner, perhaps she'll be more comfortable with a female partner. If you let yourself relax with the idea, it might be appealing.
2006-10-11 02:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with you is ur shallow i think....you need to change you need to not look at how ugly they are or how disgusting they are or just dont give up on them that easily if you let them know that sum of the nasty habbits bother you if they like u they could change like you can
2006-10-11 02:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by love_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!!! U just stick to 1 thing.Don't think too much & think about the good points in the guy....
2006-10-11 02:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by naughtybipasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-11 02:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop focusing on people's flaws and start focusing on their good qualities
2006-10-11 02:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ditsey24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋