I had a friend who I liked, why lie. When we first meet, I asked her out and she told me she was seeing someone, So I respected that. But every time that JERK cheated on her (Several times) she would call me crying her eyes out, and I would go and talk her through it, trying to calm her down. Next day, WELL GUESS WHAT, she would go right back to him!!! So even though I didn't mind helping her out when she needed me, I wonder, why did she choose a guy that would hurt her, vs. a guy who would give just about anything to get her love???!!!!
2006-10-10 19:26:58 · 13 answers · asked by Yash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a really nice guy but you should move on and find a new girl...she obvioulsly only thinks of you as "just a friend" Dont waste your time waiting around for her...if she felt the same way she would be breaking up with that idiot to be with you. Find someone who is truly into YOU!
2006-10-10 19:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by hello hello! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a true friend and you are just playing your role. A lot of girls has that problem. They know what they want but they dont seem to know where to find it. I also have a girl who left for another guy who she said is more serious than me. They are wedding in December but several times she calls me and say the guy is over protective. She was told to quit her job and she cant hang out with her friends anymore. She cries all the time but she tells she really loves him and she is not going back about the marriage issue.
Dont worry, you are not the only one with the same dilemma. Just be a friend like that. One day she will come into your arms
2006-10-10 19:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 12:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by casco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because the girl already has feelings for this guy who hurts her. She ignores the fact that she's being hurt and wants to think that he's tha only one for her. Probably she's scared in leaving him because maybe she thinks that there's no one left in the world that would make her happy and probably scared to move on. She's comforatable with what she has, even though she know that he hurts her. she just needs to realize that there are more fishes in the sea.
2006-10-10 19:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the girl really wants you. She must think by now you have given up on her. Why else would she call you crying? Why else would she call you several times? That explains why she goes back to him; she has no willpower of her own. Maybe if you let her know you still care it would make a big difference.
2006-10-10 19:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a hard time with that behavior also. If my husband cheated on me, I would dump him so fast his head would spin. It also makes me CRAZY when a person won't give someone a chance because there is "no chemistry". How would you know if you don't at least go out with them and give it a try. Geez.
2006-10-10 19:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww well alot of times girls are so nieve....guys can get a girl wrapped around there finger so easy...its not a good thing but its true....sumtimes it also comes down to sex if agirl wants it and asks a guy for it if he is sick that way he will give it to her also maybe she just sees you as a friend or a brother that mite be it too
2006-10-10 19:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by love_lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man dont trust like these girls coz they want to tim pass so they r playing hanky panky games wit u ok go and find some goos girl man plenty of good girls there but one thing u pp r seeing only beauti and sexy dont do like tat those girls only playing in every guys life so be carefull
2006-10-10 19:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi yash. i dont think we love to choose the ones hurting us but the ones we really love. now that you have witnessed that attitude of her i suggest that you keep a distance in order for you not to get hurt anymore. remember you are helping her not bec you want her to like you ot you want it that way? i hope not.
ask yourself the same question.
she kept on hurting you yet you are still there for her...bec you love her and she loves the other guy.
i hope i did answer your question
2006-10-10 19:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I can relate to your friend... firstly I dont think she likes getting hurt... she is just not firm enough and she gets sweet talked back into the relationship easily... (you know she just broke up and stuff like that, easy to say sorry and get back) well as for why she doesnt go for the nicer guy... maybe she prefers the thrill of having a bad boy?? Ok I dunno... at least that is for me... Good luck to you
2006-10-10 19:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋