my new boyfriend loves me too much but i am not able to understand my feelings. i am not able to get my x-bf out of my mind n i also dont want to hurt my new boyfriend as i care for him a lot.
2006-10-10 20:08:58 · 13 answers · asked by tina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, ask yourself why you got drawn into the new relationship. Go deep into your heart and find out if you think you deserve better because It always hurts when someone cheats. It's one of the most devastating things that can happen.
Ask yourself who your heart beats for and not who loves u more, because you are presently totally confused.
Also, ask yourself why you stayed in the relationship for so long. Are you afraid of losing your ex ?
These are hard questions, but until you feel worthy of the new boy and will he treat you as well?
And the most important thing you can do is love yourself, get to know yourself and what is it that you want?
Best of luck>
2006-10-11 22:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Tina ,When love matters, its never that his heart will break n i dont want to do so, its always good to end d relation as soon as possible if u feel its not gonna workout coz d time u spend with each other generates more feelings n hence makes it difficult 4 d other person to overcome it.
If u feel dat u still love him then breakup n try to get back to him.
2006-10-10 22:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
here's what i think....
you and your ex still have unresolved issues that is clearly getting in the way of the beautifull connection you and your new boyfriend share. .
here's what you should do... take a break... be on your own for a while because going from one relationship straight into another isn't always a good thing.
its bad for you health....
so enjoy the single life for a while and then ask your current boyfriend if he thinks theres a chance that you can get back together. if he says no... wasn't really that into you.
2006-10-10 20:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by crispysennie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of which you ought to relish the reality that he informed you the fact. It replaced into in all possibility very confusing for him to tell you. It particularly does not look as though a reason to interrupt up with him. as long as he nevertheless respects you and your values, you adult males will do properly! stable success! P.S.- and don't hear to the jerks on right here that experience the ought to declare impolite issues.
2016-10-19 04:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't let go of the past, you can't move into the future.
You being cruel and selfish. You simply don't have the right to mess with someone elses life ane well being like this.
It's time to cowgirl up. Are you a person of character or not?
2006-10-10 20:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are apparently not allowing enough gap between boyfriends.
Your X boy friend is not completely X, and your new boy friend is not completely a boyfriend.
You may hurt someones feelings while you kept confusing yourself.
Your new boy friend must know what you are going through. If he really loves you, he will understand.
2006-10-10 20:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did the guy do to you? You need to face the reality, this guy is gone and its time to move on. You need to do justice to yourself and forget about him..
Anyway, I dont think the guy is even thinking about you at all......
2006-10-10 20:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just think of the reasons why he is your ex and try to focus on your new bf. if that don't work then y=why did you get a new bf if you are still thinking of your ex???
2006-10-10 20:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about the ex...you will regret it later when your still no longer with him and it makes you lose other great guys,trust me on this!!!
2006-10-10 20:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to be honest with this new guy.Tell him you need time. better to hurt him now with the truth than later on with a lie.
2006-10-10 20:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by saturn 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋