my story..ermmm i dunno how to start + im not really good in english...so i try my best..
i have bf named "A" but he seldom call me and i think that is over..at the same time,i knew this another guy named "L" who care's for me and he ask me to be his gf..then i say yes...after two weeks, "A" call's me and he miss me and still want me..he apologies for not callin me...he ask for second chance... so i broke up with "L" just to be with "A".i didnt mean to hurt "L"s feelin... and now "L" and i became a distant friend..i was so sad..i dont know what to do now...and now, "A" try to avoid me...i regret what i did to "L"...and now i realize that "L" is better than "A"...pls tell me what to do...how to heal my relationship with "L"???
2006-10-10 23:18:20 · 9 answers · asked by Miz Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you left a guy who was paying you attention for a guy that had ignored you,now the guy who first ignored you is ignoring you again and you want to come back into the other guys life again and hurt him again.what to do ?go sit your self down somewhere and figure out why you are so silly.why you would hurt someone who was good to you for someone who was proved untrust worthy.you don't need a relationship right now,you need time to get better acquainted with you.
2006-10-10 23:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling the truth will not help your situation, tell "L" that things were complicated and you were going though a hard time and did not know what to do and were to go with life! tell him that you were not ready for a relationship at that time but you are willing to give a go now thats if he is really comitted and is willing to also try again! i aslo resently had the same problem just they were best friends which made things alot more difficult and complicated!
2006-10-11 07:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
Don`t worry about that just cool down and think that what you did was wrong and you are realising about it, isn`t it?????
If you want to make good relations with that person you first try to talk to him and tell him the truth about 'A' to him. Make him feel that you really want to be his 'gf' and you are realising
After you speak to him, you try again and tell him that you want to be his good friend and didn't wanted to hurt him, tell him that you like him and I am definitely sure that he will understand your feelings and be your 'bf' cause by telling the truth, there will be no problems, If you think he is a good person...
thank you
schilka
2006-10-11 06:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by schilkatyagi_coolgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, nice story you cared for A and L. And lately you realized L is the better one. Go to L and have some nice talks, be frank and tell him how you love him most and ask for a second chance.
2006-10-11 06:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by dodadz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's real bad. you seem not to be really in loved with any of them - you just want them! evaluate your preferences (eg. what do you want from a guy, what life do you intend to make in a married state, what values do you wanna pass on to your future children, are you the kind of person who isn't satisfied with a single lover). after laying your cards on the table, you shall be able to make a choice. it would be best to ask god's guidance in this undertaking.
2006-10-11 06:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by ren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though he far away from you call him and e mail him. Don't make any relationship with "A". Tell him what you feel inside.
2006-10-11 06:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him as long as you can, but if his love for you is so deep, it would take time for this relationship to heal. all you have to do is wait until the time his ok and ready to be your friend again
2006-10-11 06:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Alvin _ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go 4 "L" !!! explain & tell him every thing !!?? & start a freah life with "L" !!
2006-10-11 06:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry me instead :-)
2006-10-11 06:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by aggi74 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋