Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

i think ive lost physical attraction to my fiance! he is so sweet we have been together for 3 years and engaged for two nearly! were only 19 and our sex life has gone down hill already! i know that things change in a long term relationship after a while but this isnt good, i love him very much as hes been my bestfriend for over 5 years!! we get on really well and have a laugh but i just dont want to sleep with him anymore...im always making excuses like im tired or i dont feel well! i dont no whats going on with me! i dont want to hurt him by breaking up with him id miss him like crazy! hes a good looking guy but why am i not attracted to him anymore

2006-10-10 22:49:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 22:48:53 · 15 answers · asked by chaldea 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife was seeing her ex boyfriend (whom took her virginity) and decided she no longer wanted to be with me feeling she could be happier with him. Well she had an affair with him and may be possibly pregnant and have an STD now. She came to me the day after and told me. She still loves me but is also confused and saying she loves him. Been 5 days now out of them she has stayed with me but has also talked to him. We have not had sex since that happened b/c i am clean and in order to have sex possibly infect myself. We have been together for over 5 years. I love her and feel i can be with her but yet i would have to accept the STD and the baby cause she doesnt believe in abortion. My questions are should i leave for her still having feelings for him after being with him and still unsure as to who to be with and to be sure she will not go to him later on if i decide to stay with her b/c then i will the STD which will make it harder to move on with someone new?

2006-10-10 22:47:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have been dating for 7 months now. i care about him a lot, but lately we have been arguing a lot. we have a great sex life though

2006-10-10 22:46:55 · 5 answers · asked by chocolatedippedrose 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 22:46:16 · 13 answers · asked by rajeev p 1 in Friends

My bf of 3 months ended a relationship almost a year ago with a girl who cheated on him. they were together for nearly 3 years. The girl realized her mistake and asked him back to no avail. Recently, when my bf and I were a month old, his ex called him again to inquire if he already has a girlfriend and found out that he has one already toher disappoitnment. The following month her mom (a flight stewardess) called my bf and asked him to get back together with her daughter. My bf is fond of his ex's mom (because she's a very pretty mom) but he told her that he's already happy with his newfound relationship. She did not mention it anymore but keeps contacting him. Once, she asked to meet for lunch. I objected to it. He said he did not meet up with her but I dont really know. Now she wants to meet again ehen she comes back for Xmas. She called once to get him to talk to their kid brother. I dont feel this is right. How can I get this "scheming" woman to stop?

2006-10-10 22:46:14 · 17 answers · asked by lovestruck 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was living with my wife for last 10 years and all those 10 years were miserable. I always felt cheated & was always being tortured. 2 years back I went into a relationship with another woman who is also married. From my side this was only a for physical need. But from her side i felt it was a combination of physical as well as social security as her husband used to abuse her & finally left her.
A month back I also left my wife & got seperated because of the old issues. This seperation was no where connected with my new relationship. Now when I am away from my wife and have sufficient time to go to the another woman & she also keeps on inviting me to spend the nights with her, I don`t feel like going there. Although I always told this new woman that we would never marry, still she hopes that it can happen.
I need a pause for some time & she is not ready. Now I feel that I should break this new relationship for some time may be a year and think about myself while living single. how?

2006-10-10 22:44:31 · 14 answers · asked by akela 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been wanting to ask this guy to go to home coming with me. Just today I tryed hinting to him that I was not going with anyone, but my other friend had to do the same and say she had no one to go with! She asked him to go with her but he shook his head no and said something "Like what about her, she has no one to go with?" while he was talking he pointed at me. I think he likes me a little bit but I am not quite sure... Do you think I should ask him to go? ><

2006-10-10 22:43:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 22:38:44 · 20 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

Last nite my partner and I were talking about going out clubbing/dancing which he doesn't like and we haven't done for a long time. We are both 39. He then said to me "Why don't you go with your girlfriends, see if you can still "pull". I said "What do you mean by that, do you not think I could"? He said "No, I don't think you could".
That left me feeling really good about myself NOT!
What do you think and how would you feel?

2006-10-10 22:37:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am dead annoyed by his answers, dont you think he should be removed from the yahoo answers

2006-10-10 22:36:25 · 23 answers · asked by ntu 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 22:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-10 22:34:07 · 12 answers · asked by Cool Lad 2 in Family

Meaning, how do you get rid of a crush, or that odd feeling you get with someone you like.

How do you get rid of that strange smile you get when you see someone you like when you shouldn't like them at all.

It's hard especially, with OCD, to stop obsessing. How do I stop thinking of someone cold turkey?

Especially, if I know I'll never meet that person at all?

2006-10-10 22:32:54 · 4 answers · asked by dasalai 1 in Singles & Dating

in some fast food in mc donald i see her every time she eats at mc donald but i am too shy to approach her cause she's a tall pretty lady doctor and she's older than me and i just stand only 5'5 short guy but he often talk to me when shes ordering some french fries. if i inviter her for a date would u think she will accept it and also as her suitor i am willing to spend a lot to buy those roses and chocolates if she would accept me. but do you think its just a waste of time to ask her to have date and she would just laught about it and it would really hurt if she rejected me as a suitor

2006-10-10 22:32:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do or say? if i should at alll..

2006-10-10 22:31:56 · 8 answers · asked by MIMSTRIK 1 in Friends

He helps at work (his job) but he goes out of his way to make your job easier. He asks for a picture to put on his cell phone and ends up blowing it up and putting it on a carved frame(he says it was a piece of wood he just had laying around). When telling him what you want intimately he always does it. He winks and plays footsies. He always glares in my eyes while talking and many times while listening. After I told him I like flea markets he asks if one in particular I've been to. He knows I chew gum all the time and brought me alot of packs of gum. We talk about the children in our family all the time. After writing a poem to him about whether he cared or if this was a fling he tells you he does have a heart. Just to name a few what do you all think? And if so how can I get him to open up and tell me?

2006-10-10 22:30:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Isn't the whole point of both clubbing and parties to meet people ?

2006-10-10 22:28:44 · 23 answers · asked by Veronica B 1 in Singles & Dating

how could i tell my crush that i like him without actually saying it ?

2006-10-10 22:28:14 · 11 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 22:28:08 · 22 answers · asked by savleen k 1 in Singles & Dating

is it know true that Play boy is getting old and know bench is the new playboy me and my sisters yes all 7 of them have been arguing about this for weeks and my mothers going mad what do you think In Or Out

2006-10-10 22:27:29 · 4 answers · asked by keran j 1 in Family

2006-10-10 22:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by Chanti 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You are inlove with someone that is in a n realtionship and he don't love u back only as a friend..ands nomatter waht u do u can't stop loving him and can't forget him either.What should u do?Just try to go on with life even if it is hard too?

2006-10-10 22:27:00 · 7 answers · asked by baby g 1 in Friends

My gal is 26 and I'm 25. I've admitted to her that I've had sex b4. She on the other hand claims to be a virgin - she could well be. This weekend we tried to have sex, both of us were willing! I failed to penetrate her at all and she made sounds as if there was immense pain each time I tried. After we failed she said "Now do you believe me?" What I wanna know is - is virginity that hard to break?? We tried for two hours! Also, her question made me think she was faking it and making an effort to not let me in so I could think she was a virgin. I had taken her word for it but now I doubt it. Not that I mind if she's not. SO IS SHE A VIRGIN YOU THINK?????????

2006-10-10 22:25:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 22:24:16 · 21 answers · asked by Romeo 2 in Singles & Dating

Lord!!! I knew this was going to happen.....

well, this guy that i like,....today i went up and asked his number....i think i didnt do it the rite way.....we have been like talking since a few days and today we cud hang out for alittle longer....and i was like playing with his phone and suddenly asked his number......he was like...y do u need my number? and was teasing me...and then gave me his friends number as his number....i shud have stopped it then & there...but went ahead and found out his number and called him back.....and said smthg stupid...and hung up!!!!!!!

lord ...i lost all my dignity today...all the poise i had maintained all the while ....is like gone......wat is he thinking abt me????

2006-10-10 22:22:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been (or was) involved with a man from US whom I met on-line and I became pregnant on his 2nd visit. He has failed several times on his promise to see me and his daughter (who is now turning 2 years old) and he is nowhere to be located (although we still communicate on-line from time to time). I have found out of his ex-wife's e-mail address and have been hesitating to send her an e-mail or call her at work to ask about the whereabouts of this man. What will you do if you are ever caught up in this situation? Thanks! Please note that I am not asking for financial support.

2006-10-10 22:22:42 · 5 answers · asked by foreverblue2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really don't want to cut them though as my partner has a foot fetish and loves my lengthy toe nails....but it is really becoming a problem shoe wise....please any helpful suggestions?

2006-10-10 22:18:20 · 7 answers · asked by diane c 3 in Singles & Dating

especially if you are in this type of may\november romance.

2006-10-10 22:18:06 · 19 answers · asked by JustJane 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious what you all think. See, I'm pretty blunt because I don't see the point in wasting any guy's time if sex is a requirement for a relationship with him. Usually I tell them straight away, it's only fair right? But some of my friends tell me that I shouldn't. The 2 main reasons they give me are: if you tell them that, they might get turned off immediately and won't give you a chance OR a lot of my guy friends say that it'll just make some guys see me as a challenge and pursue me even more, with all the wrong intentions.
Any thoughts on this? I still think that being straight forward is the best approach, why waste my time or theirs, right? Help me out. Thanks :)

2006-10-10 22:15:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating