2006-10-10 22:24:16 · 21 answers · asked by Romeo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is. It means you are not confident in your abilities to keep her happy. So all you have to do is keep her happy and you will have no worries. Thats easier said than done :)
2006-10-10 22:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by mbaker_713 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You either dont trust her because of something she has done wrong to you in the past, OR, its your own sh!T that may have happend to you in the past. Maybe your relationship with your mum has not been as good as you may have wished or hoped for. I dont know. But all i know is, that you must feel insecure about yourself, after all, you should love your self enough not to think that your girlfriend is up to something or feel insecure about her, why are you not thinking that SHE is the lucky one to be with you. Why do YOU have to feel inadequate.
Everyone is insecure mate, your not alone, and anyone that tells you that they aint insecure about anything, no matter how small, are lying. Its just life, its the images that fashion makes us follow, partners being unfaithful, money greed and jelousy, its a cruel world, but you can get over feeling insecure. I know it sounds a bit stupid, but try and "find yourself" and be on your own for a while. Insecure people attrack insecure people and form relationships subconciously. An insecure person with a not-so-insecure person will not work out. Trust me.
goodluck xx ",)
2006-10-10 22:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by london lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...it just means that you care about her alot that you have given thoughts that made you insecure.
Just be sure of yourself and try to take the lead in the relationship,help her resolve problems/trouble she's in.It does'n matter if you succeed of fail,it will make her feel she can depend on you when she's in trouble.And this would in turn make her feel security with your presence.
In no time she'll be stuck with you and even helpless @ situations without you.
The last thing you want to do is act all sensitive when you are with her and keep asking her if you are good enough for her and act being sorry.I think this will turn any girl off and lead to the end of a relationship...
2006-10-10 22:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by tommy_c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being insecure is a bad state of mind. You are either making rubbish up in your head and making yourself feel bad or she is doing things to make you feel like it.
Decide which it is. If you think that it is things that she is doing that are upsetting you, talk about it with her. If there is no real reason then realise that there isn't a reason and break out of it fool. It will only twist your relationship and make it impossible to be with each other.
2006-10-10 23:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your girl friend i s making you feel insecure she is not the one for you. A good healthy relationship should involve you both feeling comfortable with each other without playing games. If you are feeling insecure she should be doing something to reassure you. Maybe you need to work on your self esteem and try and convince yourself that you are a good catch and that she is lucky to be with you. Good luck
2006-10-11 01:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, unless she has done something to make you insecure!
by being insecure you are telling her the you do not trust her! what is the point in a relationship if there is no trust? women are sensitive, if you cannot trust her why should she be with you? you are only pushing her away.If she does get a lot of attention just remind yourself that she is with you! you need to deal with youre issues, sort your head out!if she has done nothing to make you feel like this then why is she the one being punished. whether you realise it or not that is what you are doing!
2006-10-11 02:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that women love confident men and they pick up on it immediatly.Learn to be confident and don't fake it, even if the one you are with now leaves ,you will have the confidence the next time around .Insecurity will always make you untrusting , trust who you are and don't be arrogant and yourgirlfrien will respond in a positive way.
2006-10-11 00:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by ga44male 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you show it to her and other openly! Makes you look needy and unsure of yourself. If there's no reason to suspect she'll leave you then ignore the feeling of insecurity. BUt if there is then maybe investigate or confront her or something.
2006-10-10 22:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being slightly insecure's ok. It means you'll be considerate and nice to her.
But being paranoid or insanely jealous is not a good thing
2006-10-10 22:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very bad as you will ruin the relationship. Enjoy what you have for what it is, if all goes wrong at least you will have some good memories
2006-10-10 22:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋