i think ive lost physical attraction to my fiance! he is so sweet we have been together for 3 years and engaged for two nearly! were only 19 and our sex life has gone down hill already! i know that things change in a long term relationship after a while but this isnt good, i love him very much as hes been my bestfriend for over 5 years!! we get on really well and have a laugh but i just dont want to sleep with him anymore...im always making excuses like im tired or i dont feel well! i dont no whats going on with me! i dont want to hurt him by breaking up with him id miss him like crazy! hes a good looking guy but why am i not attracted to him anymore
2006-10-10 22:49:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im not about just physical attraction i guess its not like i dont think hes good lookin gits just that i dont feel the spark anymore, when we sleep together it doesnt feel good anymore
2006-10-10 22:56:05 · update #1
other details i was asked for...
hes always asking me for sex but i dont want it hes not begging me or anything just that i havent put out in a few weeks.
and yes i do have some minor feelings of attraction for anouther guy but hes a player its just purely lust...but still i guess i shouldnt be thinking like that...
2006-10-10 23:06:18 · update #2
WAKE UP!!! You don't love him' At least not the way he wants you too. Don't let this go any farther it's only going to break his heart that much more. Tell him now. Don't wait till time to walk down the isle to tell him.
2006-10-10 22:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a thought but maybe its a sign. When you think about being with him and sleeping with him for the rest of your life, what does your gut feeling tell you? It would be very hard to break up with him and it would take a lot of courage but imagine being with someone for however long and not being happy or satisfied. listen to what your body is telling you and think really seriously about what it is you want. Put yourself first. Also is there something new in his character that you are subconciously being put off by?
2006-10-11 05:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're already married, because that's what happens after many years of marriage. Maybe you like an athletic guy, and you boyfriend is a little chubby ar doesn't go to the gym often, I don't know. But if that is the case, you should suggest that to him, or go together to the gym, until he has that perfect male body you dream about
2006-10-11 05:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by crysstina_88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you attracted to someone else? or not getting enough sex from Him? Are you an adventerous kind?
Your ansewr to these questions is required to suggest a solution.
2006-10-11 06:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by deamer boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to think about this, maybe you have become to comfortable in the relationship and do not realize it.
Make an effort to be with him and see what happens.
If you still feel the same, you need to discuss your feelings with him.
Good luck.
2006-10-11 05:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction shouldn't matter if you truly love him. The attraction should be to him. His personality and his being. Not his physical characteristics.
2006-10-11 05:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl.
2006-10-11 05:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋