Isn't the whole point of both clubbing and parties to meet people ?
2006-10-10 22:28:44 · 23 answers · asked by Veronica B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being in a relationship doesn't mean that you're someone's Siamese twin, joined to them continuously. I've had a long, happy marriage, and my spouse and I go plenty of places without each other. You don't have to be with someone 24/7 to make a relationship work. In fact, that kind of clinging, co-dependent behavior usually ends up killing relationships.
2006-10-10 22:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by thaliax 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
meeting people outside the relationship is not a bad thing. being friendly is a nice attitude, but then if you go party without you partner knowing it then your hiding something girl.. maybe you do want to meet people on purpose. knowing the fact that your bf know that your going out on parties and everything makes the person feel secure and he/she is assured that you will not do stupid things to break your relationship. its up to the both of you. communication, trust, loyalty and understanding are the foundation of a "great love"..
2006-10-11 05:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Nikkilovejeffrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly ok. first of all you are just bf/gf. you are not the property of your bf/gf. your bf/gf has no right whatsoever to forbid you to attend parties. just think that if you are just bf/gf and you are already forbidden to do those things, then what would happen if you are already married t your bf/gf? you would be a prisoner! i believe that you should be given freedom to do those things. it's part of learning from experience.
but it is assumed that you just attend parties or go clubbing to enjoy yourself and relax. but if your intention in attending parties is to meet someone else, then that's a different situation. you should be responsible enough to realize that you are already committed to someone and is expected to behave in such a way that you protect and maintain the trust give to you by your bf/gf.
2006-10-11 05:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the understanding between the two people involved.I agree Clubbing is to meet people. why would you want to meet someone else if you have a comitted relationship? Or maybe the gf/bf are not that committed.
2006-10-11 05:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as the bf/gf is giving the chance to go. I say go and have fun Unless you know some reason why that person can't be trusted to do so. In that case you sholud not be with a person you can't trust. I f it is because of the person not going who is simply insecure. You have to ask yourself are you willing to lose him or her over clubbing and partying?
2006-10-11 05:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by uclmr@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes and no the whole point of clubbing is to release all the stress and meeting people doesnt mean having a relationship with them
2006-10-11 05:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by yewny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes...
You've gotta have some time to yourself even if you are in a relationship.
If you guys love each other enough,you'l have enough confidence to let him/her go pubbing/parties with friends.
BUT take note...trust does'n mean ignorant.Get to know your bf/gf friends and tell them to keep a look out for you just in case anything serious happens they can call you and "prince charming will be rushing to the rescue!"
2006-10-11 05:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by tommy_c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! Clubbing is to have fun and have a good time.....meeting people, making friends is a part of that...nothing wrong with that
2006-10-11 05:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I party coz i wanna spent time with my friends..chill after work TGIF... i don't drink but still i wanna dance like a madwhore... N meeting ppl is not my main priority in going clubbing..if my bf wants to do the same with his geeks..yeah y not..but if he is doing it too often..i think it's unhealthy tho'...
2006-10-11 05:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
as long as the person isn't going in order to meet other people, there wouldn't be a thing wrong with it. You need to have some separation in a relationship, and also trust.
2006-10-11 05:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋