what should i do or say? if i should at alll..
2006-10-10 22:31:56 · 8 answers · asked by MIMSTRIK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah I hate it when that happens. But let her have her fun for a while, if you think she's been neglecting her friends & family for far too long have a talk with her. Let her know how you feel, be nice about it. Tell her that you think it's great she found someone but at the same time you miss hanging out with her. I'm sure she'll understand :)
2006-10-10 23:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mawarda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's really your best friend you should be happy for her. thats the cycle of life. there is nothing better than to love, really love someone. sounds like she met that soul that she cant breathe w/out. my guess is that you will be in her shoes before you know it and IT WIll be a relief to know you didnt judge. and you will get the support and understanding from her "then", that you give now. thats why best friends are the best. no conditions, just trust and love. i hope this guy is best friend material. if so, be happy. you can feel a little "butt-hurt". but u r right behind her and it will make sense later. you might be the only feed back to her that is positive. that could make her whole day and then some. and you'll have some good karma on credit. that is a pretty good feeling. its that simple, "believe it"
2006-10-10 23:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jenell Santos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might take her a while but she will come round maybe just ask her out to lunch once a week or some thing make an excuse up to see her i've been with my partner for almost 18 months and i turned around one day a few months ago and just wanted to be with the girls you know and realised that they were all gone it happend to me to before i was in a serious relationship all my mates were of with there boy friends all the time and i was jelous i guess you could say but she'll come round all you can do is drag her away from him occasionly at least once a week even if its just window shopping or something take her out have a good time but dont nag her about it because when your first with a guy like for the first 6 months even the first year no one else matters and all you want to do is spend time with your man but when she does come round then say som thing to her and she'll look back and think what a looser trust me i've been there and done that
2006-10-10 22:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is same with me as my friend is also doing the same thing which your friend is doing . So in this u cant help her because it is very very difficult to make her understand about any thing as u no when a person fall in love that person become blind .
i think u should talk to her if she listen to it and also make her realise that there are so many people in our life who need u .
thanks
2006-10-10 23:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing if you say something it could ruin thier relatshoinship or your friendship. The whole thing might just blow over and if gets really bad you should say something for the safety of your friend
2006-10-10 23:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by squiddy833923 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing she will be back shes just in the first throws of things and will soon be wondering where you all are, be patient
2006-10-10 22:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain your feelings, carry away with me lol
2006-10-11 04:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my apinion is dont let boyfreind's get in front of family
2006-10-10 22:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋