My friend is being abused by his parents, but he has siblings and I really dont want them to move away or be removed from the home and put somewheres else. Is there a way that I can have them removed from the home and placed into a family home that is nearby?
Or is there a way that the law can enforce anger management on the parents?
I dont know shoot some ideas, I really need the information.
The laws might be different so maybe if this helps, this is in the florida district.
2006-10-10 05:54:15 · 16 answers · asked by Bob T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If he is not safe, he needs to be removed from the home. There is a possibility for the children to be palced into a family member's home, but this does not happen immediately. But the main thing is he needs to be safe, no matter what happens. It's not easy for kids to be taken away but sometimes it needs to happen.
2006-10-10 05:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kiah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would need more information to help you out. If you have a school counselor or teacher you trust to help you. Understand that if you talk to a teacher or counselor they obligated to report the abuse to a law enforcement agency.
If you are concerned for your friend I would definately talk to someone you can do this confidentially, but I would do this sooner then later. Only b/c it will be rough for your friend, but he or she and their family need help.
You can't force his family to get anger management but a judge can and the law can protect your friend. Abuse is not a joke, and its good to get them help now b/c in most cases children that grow up abuse can do the same if they have children.
Your friend is lucky to have a friend that cares about them this much, but it's time to get off the computer and go talk to someone that can help you and your friend. Just know this -- My sister had gone thru a similar situation only her friends parents were suppling a 15 year old with drugs. It caused a fight with my sister and her friend, once her friend got help now they are closer then ever. It may get hard for your friendship but stick with this person and in the long run they will appreciate what you are doing.
Good luck to you and to your friend & his family. Take care.
2006-10-10 06:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend making an anonymous phone call to HRS. They will send out a social worker to evaluate the situation. If he is being abused and there are other children in the home, then it would be in all of the children's best interests to have this checked out. You can remain anonymous when calling. Seems like you are a really good friend, make the call, but don't give your name, and don't tell your friend that you were the one that called, that would only create more problems. Hope it all works out.
2006-10-10 05:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by brokeninthebox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to report it. Removal from the home is seldom the first step. They'll start with telling the parents ideas on handling the kids, followed by parenting classes if it doesn't get resolved.
2006-10-10 06:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there an adult in your family, or a staff person at school that you can present this issue to without mentioning names and get advice there. Please make sure that it really is abuse and not a son angry at his parents. Another idea is there an aunt, uncle or grandparent that he is close to that he could speak with, or that you know well enough to talk to. Don't give up in trying to get him and his siblings help. You are a good friend.
2006-10-10 06:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by roeskats 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on what kind of abuse it is.If it pyshcial abuse they need to get out of there some one could really get hurt. I know you are scared of losing your friend to a state home but his parents might hit him wrong one time and you could lose him forever. Report them so they can get the help they need. If its mental the courts might order therapy for the whole family and that's the best. If its sexual then they have to get out of there too.Help your friend before you lose him.
2006-10-10 06:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by roni_lane81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will have no say where the kids will go however you might ask that your friend stay with you and your family,you need to report this even if the kids go to different homes no child should be abused ever ,this will go to court and yes the parents will have to take parenting classes
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-10 06:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are they being abused? obviously you are a teen ager and are suspecting this or do you have proof? If you have proof then the officers will believe you however if you have no proof then most likely officers will not believe you. But if you ever see bruises or anything then definately report it . However please make sure you have facts in evidence. I would hate to see you get in trouble because someone is lying. You know.
2006-10-10 05:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell the police or child protective services. No matter where they are put,anywhere is better than where they are. You can call or visit them if they are moved away.You can't be selfish,they need help.
2006-10-10 06:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by sspinnj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad, you might talk to a counselor, it is so sad to think of children being abused! He will be your friend no matter where he is he will remember you forever for getting him help. How kind you are!!!!!!!! You might convince him to go to the school counselor, they are there to HELP him
2006-10-10 05:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋