I just saw my ex-boyfriend today after a month. Its so painful and I am really depressed. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over this? It makes me want to cry so bad but I am trying to resist. Can someone please help me. Thanks in advance.
2006-10-10 05:48:56 · 28 answers · asked by Justine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I don't have any friends, I tried to get back together but its for the best to just be friends. I have cried almost all day today and I just don't want to hurt anymore. But I will try...Thanks!
2006-10-10 05:58:43 · update #1
He told me that he is interested in someone else which hurts a little. I guess I am just scared to move on.
2006-10-10 06:00:56 · update #2
no harm in crying it out girl! it could even help take away the bad feelings you have inside. just think & put in mind that things happen for a reason..it is not really easy getting over a person that you have really loved most but it is still possible if you really want that to happen..Ü
2006-10-10 05:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts now but it will eventually be alot easier. Now that you are single again get back in touch with things you like to do & make some friends & hang out.Do you honestly think that this guy is sitting around crying over you.So why are you letting this beat you down like this.Think of postive stuff in life & act on it. Mr. Right could be in your face right now & you can't see him cause you crying over an ex . That means something wasn't right when you was together or he would be with you now.Hold your head up & live gurl!
2006-10-10 05:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what everything happen for a reason,you can call him,chat with don't bring up the irresistible love thing. See how he values you in his life,just be friendly.Do yourself a favor don't call always he might think you are desperate, act as if you care not about him being an ex.Take sometime do an introspection ask yourself what made you leave him than what you really want.It may help you to say the news after sometime when you realize where you really stand.
2006-10-10 06:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by luwiza m aka bmw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all that happened was you thought about the times you shared together...i understand exactly how you feel...it was almost like you looked up and seen him with another girl...but you must accept that this person is no longer in your life anymore....he has moved on so you need to do same...whoever said relationships were built to last...ppl break up everday...we often feel sad because we are not with that person anymore...and it hurts because we see that they have moved on without us....thats why you feel so hurt....now what you need to do is accept whats happened...and move on don't sit around and dwell on him because he's not dwelling on you...it may take some time for you to get over him....but as your doing so....you take care of you, stop looking into the past... start looking into the future....and in no time you will be just fine.
2006-10-10 06:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over an ex-boyfriend, is to get ANOTHER boyfriend! Not just anyone, but someone whose company you enjoy. And, when your relationship develops with the new boyfriend, I can almost guarantee that the ex-boyfriend will no longer cause you to feel this way. In fact, you may wonder what you saw in him in the first place!
2006-10-10 05:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and date. I'm not saying look for a "rebound" and use anyone or sleep around, just go out on lots of dates. It will help you take your mind off things at least, maybe help you to realize there ARE other men out there, and if you're lucky maybe you will end up finding the right one. You will never get over it if you don't move on somewhat.
2006-10-10 05:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex G/F still ensists on dragging me back into her life for no reason and, yes, it sucks. If you think there's no chance of getting back together, do everything you can to drop him. Throw away old stuff, delete old stuff, whatever. Read "How to Stop Your Addiction To A Person" or any other break-up book. Time is your friend on this, girl. Good luck!
2006-10-10 05:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since he got a hold on u,u should see if he wants u back and if u do try being with him again!And if he don't than go out have sum fun to get ya mind off of him!
2006-10-10 05:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by babytwin22000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating
2006-10-10 05:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I can tell you is to try to avoid him and any connection with him. Only time is going to make this easier on you. No short cuts this is just a part of your life's growing process.
2006-10-10 05:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by accvining 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋