Yes I was. I missed out on a lot of dates as a teenager because of that shyness. I was afraid of being turned down. Then i realized being turned down is part of the game and that the girl wasn't rejecting me she just didn't have that intial spark of interest. I stopped taking being turned down as personally and found that I ended up with more dates than I had ever expected. I still got turned down but if you keep trying eventually you'll get someone that says yes.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-10 05:49:23
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answered by St.Anger 4
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I took chances...and I got rejected a lot (my awkward stage lasted from 2nd grade to about the middle of my junior year in high school).
The reason why I did it was because I didn't want to miss out on anything...even if there was just a chance...I'd take it.
And eventually I just stopped being so desperate and I found guys were after me...
2006-10-10 05:56:50
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answered by Sweet Jane 3
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Yeah, I was one of those kids. As I grew up I just got more confidence and more experience.
I learned that being shot down is a little embarrassing, but it doesn't really hurt. Right now I'm learning the art of "going down in flames: with style."
2006-10-10 05:53:17
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answered by Akfek_Branford 4
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I liked to take chances when it came to dating. I would ask a guy out if I was interested in him. If nothing came from it, not a big deal. I tried not to let it affect my ego. Its all about having confidence going into the situation.
2006-10-10 05:47:43
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answered by JayEmmBee 3
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no, I was never like that. I was the one that got asked out
2006-10-10 05:47:41
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answered by Anonymous
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i used to be shy but now i just be myself. if he likes me he likes me if not his loss.
2006-10-10 05:48:52
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answered by bambi..♥ 3
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yes nothing
2006-10-10 05:53:41
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answered by matthew 2
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