Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

there's a problem that I have with going threw the process of having a organsm. is it because i am just not into it or is he not doing right? can someone please answer this for me? what is wrong?

2006-10-10 06:32:24 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My question is, is that normal that I like girls with a good personality not the way she looks I mean she is very simple normal body everything is normal but her personality is wow. A lot of guys love blonde tan girls with big butts and Breast I don’t is that a problem?

2006-10-10 06:31:55 · 29 answers · asked by boosterspd 1 in Singles & Dating

in june my bf quarreled with me coz he saw me doing salsa with another guy.He mesd me instantly that i should be in his arms and that the other guy is me bf.I kept tellin him that he's jus a dance partner. Then he kept sending irritatin mesgs to me that im a bad gal etc tht he feels like slapping me,i shouldnt wear certain kinda clothes etc.but then in august he kept the frnshipband i had gifted him on his birthday on my car n went.I kept silent.Then he droped a mesg with only my cell no written on it in my dad's cell.After remaining silent for 3 months,i replied him tht he shouldnt mesg on my dad's cell.Then he told me tht he has come to know tht i hav been other boy's gf, im a bad gal then i told him tht its wrong n i only know him but then he said tht he will observe me for 2 months then he will becom mesg frnd. I told him not to mesg me coz he was jus blaming me.In september,he keeps mesgin me tht y am i not gettin married, people r rejecting me etc.Then i told him never to mesg me even then he keeps mesgin me.I then sent a mesg tht this no isnt with me anymore but with my frnd even then he mesgs.

2006-10-10 06:31:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have known each other and have been off and on for 5 years. Lately, he always has an attitude with me and is always so upset. We fight and argue a lot and when things do start to get better, we end up arguing over something stupid which just escaltes into something big and starts his attitude all over again. I ask him what the problem is and he tells me I don't listen to him, but when I do, he just stays mad. Whenever I try to tell him how I feel about things, he just gets upset and comes back at me with stuff instead of addressing the things I'm saying to him. I hate the way he acts towards me whenever he gets mad about something, he's a whole different person, he's like Dr. Jeckl and Mr. Hyde. He tells me he loves me and wants to be with me, but it seems like it's so hard for him to be nice and show it.I love him with all my heart, but I don't know if I should keep trying to talk to him and keep trying to work things out,or just leave him alone and see what happens

2006-10-10 06:30:41 · 18 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

I am an avid swimmer at home. I want to join a local co-ed swim club which competes with other clubs. Fun! Here is the problem. All the men were competition style bathingsuits, Speedos. I am unfortunately a very well endowed man. When I wear a speedo it is barely contained and with the tight thin fabric you can make out the head and shaft detail at even a minimal glance. Not an issue when I am doing laps in my back yard. Is this a problem when half the team are women?
Ladies if you saw your teammate enter the pool area wearing a speedo that barely contained him and could easily see the exact contours of his memeber what would you do?
I really want to join this team as several of its members are friends and co-workers.
What should I do?

2006-10-10 06:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by calidzyner 1 in Friends

If a woman wants to abort her child and the alleged father doesnt want it aborted, does the father have any rights? Can he get a court order to keep the baby?

2006-10-10 06:30:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 06:30:18 · 6 answers · asked by happy96ss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy i went out with we were together for 2 months but i felt like if it was years...we broked up for the fact that he cheated on me with his ex...but he kept on calling me and texting me he said he liked me but he never showed it to me he said that he didnt wanted to be with me....so wat should i do? should i just mess around with him or what?

2006-10-10 06:30:16 · 4 answers · asked by maria a 1 in Singles & Dating

Why Not ?

2006-10-10 06:29:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 06:29:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anna K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we always fight for petty reasons...i want to be happy with my husband will i ever be?

2006-10-10 06:29:38 · 25 answers · asked by Mrin 1 in Family

I have been dating my GF for 4 months now and I get an uneasy feeling each time she mentions a new guy that she has dated. Is it fine if I just ask her how many guys she has dated and how many she has slept with? Do I have a right to know? I have told her that I have not dated many girls and that I was a virgin when I met her. But she seems uneasy about her situation herself, asking me questions like, what do you consider a lot? And she always gets very defensive when I talk about it, defending herself by saying she is not a s-l-u-t. How do I handle this situation?

2006-10-10 06:28:28 · 17 answers · asked by Koolam 1 in Singles & Dating

Describe what you think the love means to you. May be share the experience.
Do you think it benefited you or damaged you in someway?
Do you believe that love changes over time or even fades away?

2006-10-10 06:28:01 · 6 answers · asked by Pudge_Monsta 3 in Singles & Dating

When I go out I see 11 year old girls in mini skirts and full makeup and jewelry. I would never let a child of mine go out dressed like that for fear that they would be molested! What has changed for parents to think it is ok and for children to want to be like this? Your thoughts please!

2006-10-10 06:27:16 · 15 answers · asked by claire 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 06:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by goodbye and good luck :-) 1 in Friends

last night was the second time me and my gf have had sex, we both lost our virginity to each other, im great at for play and everything up untill the sex part, i dont have any problems with my unit but i want to make her feel good, does any one know where i can read or learn how to use "it" or is it just a practice makes perfact thing???

2006-10-10 06:26:56 · 17 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is a very controlling and manipulative person. the World
pretty much needs to revolve around her. She believed that she
gave each of her children eighteen years and we need to give her that back. My Dad was killed in a car accident 17 year ago. On Sunday, My mom compared me to one of my brothers, Dan. I said
thank you. She said it was not a compiment, he is a self centered
son of a b****. I replied by saying not to call her son that, because that makes her the b****. I preceded to EXPLODE out that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree! I told her she was self centered, selfish, manipulative and controlling person. It felt good to say all that. Of the converstaion exploded and ended by me saying goodbye and hanging up. She had Knee replacement the next day, I did not go, My other two sisters were there and that was enough. I am tring to detach 100%, buy in my head I have so
many other emotions. I am Happy w/ what I said.

2006-10-10 06:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by Barb K 1 in Family

2006-10-10 06:26:15 · 8 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Singles & Dating

do you think that teachers should be able to carry guns?
A senator in Wisconsin is going to be proposing along with other senators from across the country that teachers should be able to carry handguns on them. He cites security and success with this in other countries. He also says that hey would be required to undergo EXTENSIVE TRAINING AND COUNSELING in order to do so. However, he claims that you can cut down school violence dramatically by doing so. What do you think??

2006-10-10 06:25:38 · 7 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Family

my husbands birthday is in two weeks and i have no idea what to buy him i know hes into britney spears but he has all her movies and i was thinking about getting an autograph for him but im not sure thats what i want to buy... anyone with some good ideas on what to get him let me know?

2006-10-10 06:25:32 · 2 answers · asked by alvarez53403 2 in Family

ok....i am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 20...... i really love him with all me heart, but i think he is starting to have second thoughts about staying with me, because i am still in school and he has a job, we see each other every day. We have been together for like 6 months, do you think he is getting tired of waitin on me to graduate????

2006-10-10 06:25:31 · 23 answers · asked by babygurl22 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf keeps telling me that I need to show more emotions, what should I say so she will understand or drop the whole idea of me showing them? Because honestly I hate showing emotions.

2006-10-10 06:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by montana_infantry_man 2 in Singles & Dating

IF I'VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WIHT A GUY FOR A YEAR AND WE FIGHT AND WE TAKE BREAKS ALL THA TIME WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?

2006-10-10 06:24:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 06:23:53 · 14 answers · asked by happy96ss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I like a girl, but only physical as I don't know her for a long time. I don't know if she likes me... there are about 6 years between us but we are both adults. I might be interested to know her better but I'm also afraid of rejection. what shall I do?

2006-10-10 06:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by europe 2 in Singles & Dating

eh, I could make millions!!!!

2006-10-10 06:23:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is everyones opinion on phone sex? Is it ok? Is it good? Tell me your thoughts.

2006-10-10 06:22:07 · 37 answers · asked by joe_in_ont 1 in Singles & Dating

sex, love, friendship or whatever

2006-10-10 06:21:41 · 3 answers · asked by MIgnight HUG 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are very protective/overprotective. My whole life I've been homeschooled(with no option on whether I can go to school or not), pretty much banned from church, and practically jobless. There've been so many things I've wanted to do in the past, but have been turned down on, that I dread asking about doing anything new. I remember back in 4th grade wanting to join a soccer team and getting a huge lecture on how people would tape up their kid's arms in baseball so that'd they'd pitch left handed and things equally retarded. Public school is a huge anger builder for them, and same with church. My mom can make a huge lecture out of the simplest questions, and my dad gets really angry when you ask certain questions, or disagree with him. Just recently I was at a friends house and had to be back by 6:30, but I called for a time extension and he exploded. I really want to get out, I don't think I'll be able to last another year till I turn 18, but what should I do?

2006-10-10 06:21:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have been with my boyfriend for like two years now. we have had a pretty rocky relationship and its been mostly my doing. The thing is that i have a problem with being faithful. I have cheated on him twice this month with the same guy. I do love my boyfriend and i do not know why, i put myself into these situations. I dont want to tell him because, i know that i will lose him. Please tell me what i should do. I question myself like is this really love becasue, i know if it was i would not cheat. I feel so dirty and i hate myself right now. He has issues but, he is a good guy. help me please. I am so confused.

2006-10-10 06:21:33 · 7 answers · asked by bra$ilianlove? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships