in june my bf quarreled with me coz he saw me doing salsa with another guy.He mesd me instantly that i should be in his arms and that the other guy is me bf.I kept tellin him that he's jus a dance partner. Then he kept sending irritatin mesgs to me that im a bad gal etc tht he feels like slapping me,i shouldnt wear certain kinda clothes etc.but then in august he kept the frnshipband i had gifted him on his birthday on my car n went.I kept silent.Then he droped a mesg with only my cell no written on it in my dad's cell.After remaining silent for 3 months,i replied him tht he shouldnt mesg on my dad's cell.Then he told me tht he has come to know tht i hav been other boy's gf, im a bad gal then i told him tht its wrong n i only know him but then he said tht he will observe me for 2 months then he will becom mesg frnd. I told him not to mesg me coz he was jus blaming me.In september,he keeps mesgin me tht y am i not gettin married, people r rejecting me etc.Then i told him never to mesg me even then he keeps mesgin me.I then sent a mesg tht this no isnt with me anymore but with my frnd even then he mesgs.
2006-10-10 06:31:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MY QUES-ON 1 SIDE HE TOLD ME ITS ALL OVER,HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT ME.THE OTHER SIDE HE KEEPS MESGIN ME,ASKIN ME TO LISTEN TO CERTAIN SONG ON TV,COMES TO SEE ME IN MALL ETC,ASKS ME BY MESGIN WHERE AM I GOING ?YESTDE HE CAME TO SEE ME N THEN MESGS THT IM A BAD GURL N I MESGD GUDBYE.HE SENT A 4WARD MESG EVEN THEN.BUT WHEN I MESGD THT DONT U KNOW THE MEANING OF GUDBYE.HE MESGD WHO CARED N BECAME SILENT.DOES HE LOVE ME?COZ HE ONLY CONTACTS ME I NEVER CONTACT BUT JUS REPLY SOME OF HIS MESGS.WHY DOES HE SEND BAD GURL MESG THEN Y HE CONTACTS ME AFTER MY RUDE MESGS NOT TO CONTACT ME.HE CONTACTS,THEN AFTER 2-3 MESGS HE WRITES SOMTHING DISTURBING N THEN V BECOME SILENT ALL THE TIME THIS THING HAPPENS.WHAT SHOULD I DO?BUT HE HASNT CALLED IN THESE 3-4 MONTHS BUT MESGS ALMOST EVERYDAY.WHAT SHOULD I DO I REALLY LOVE HIM
2006-10-10 06:31:57 · update #1
I think you should message one last time and tell him if he calls, messages or bothers you one more time you will report him for harassment and he could get arrested. From the sound of your question I can tell he is a person who wont give up easily. Why do you let him treat you this way? Tell him to get lost if you can cause he sounds like an abuser all that watching what you do stuff. Girl talk to your parents and get this guy out of your life.
2006-10-10 06:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds really possessive and controlling. Your still really young, don't worry about having a serious boyfriend yet. Enjoy hanging out with your friends and just having fun. As for this guy tell him to stop bothering you and if he doesn't let you dad know so he can help with the problem.
2006-10-10 06:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by tays232003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're able to do is substitute your selection and don't touch him in any respect. This guy is ill interior the pinnacle, in case you may no longer have a salsa dance companion then it is his fault no longer yours. You did no longer do something incorrect, it is this adult men fault no person elses. in case you come again with this guy, issues are in basic terms going to worsen believe me, do exactly no longer refer to him and attempt and overlook approximately him, you will locate somebody which would be each and every little thing you decide on him to be, I promise!!
2016-10-16 01:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by mulry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he should have a hot looking salsa dancer for himself to dance with,, im sure that fair seeing as they would be dance partners only,isnt slasa dancing suppossed to be sexy and if so why werent you dancing with your boyfriend,,, the fact that you were dancing suductivly with another man, was bad enough but that your boyfriend ws there ,,well he should just move on,,,women like you well they just make me sad to think they can be that way,, they control half the money,, and all the ....
2006-10-10 06:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to leave his a** right where he started off in the first place, and that is called "still looking". start off back in the fresh and find that real man to keep you happy and not having to worry about answering to his every needs.
2006-10-10 06:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I can't understand a damn thing that you've written. Maybe you need to take a grammar/spelling course before you are allowed to date.
2006-10-10 06:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dump his ***
2006-10-10 06:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋