Family & Relationships - 10 October 2006

Someone was on my friend's screen name on Saturday night but my friend said that he changed his password so that whoever go on his screen name before couldn't get on it again.
But tonight I think someone was on his screen name because it didn't seem like him but I still talked to whoever it was & I said my friend's name & asked if it was him & they said yes & they said we could do all this stuff when he gets back from Iraq.
I'm worried that whoever was on his screen name tonight if it wasn't him is over in Iraq with him in his unit & the person is going to tell him all that I said or something & he already got mad at me once but I didn't know it wasn't him on his screen name:*( :*( :*( :*(
My friend listens to what everyone says too :*( :*( :*( :*( :*(
What Should I Do???
What Would You Do If You Were Me???

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2006-10-10 06:42:09 · 18 answers · asked by Jill 1 in Friends

I have been with my husband for 15 years, he has been abusive verbally and physically. I was ready to leave and still am pondering the idea of it. He has turned into a totally different person in this past 6 weeks, since his last rage. (threw something at me in front of our son). We have tried marriage counseling, however I have a lot of hurt inside me. He says he is willing to do anything he can to save our marriage. However, I see him changing for a period of time, but going back to the way he always has been. I am different now, I know that I will not put up with any abuse. Myself and my son deserve much more. I don't want to end my marriage and would love to see it work. I know that I can't "fix" him, but what can I do to help him? I also know that he can't do this on his own.

2006-10-10 06:41:55 · 26 answers · asked by diddle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone know of a real life "hitch" i have aproached woman in so many ways,but still no luck,im sick of being alone! every where i look,every where i go,people are happy,i`ve been through a lot in my life and feel i deserve a bit of happiness.don`t get me wrong,i`m not in a state of self pitty,i know exactly what my physical imperfections are,i`ve grown to exept them,finding someone to do the same is proving to be rather difficult

2006-10-10 06:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by CHARLIE 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now. Our relationship has been a little rocky for the past 3 months. This guy is such a dork, I dont even know why I have been with him for so long. He doesnt hold my hand. I get no kisses from him at all. Last real kiss I got from him was halloween of last year. He's very selfish and greedy. BUT, I cant tell him I dont want to see him anymore. I'm not the one to be hurting anyone. Dont want anyone mad at me. I just need to tell him in a way that he wont feel upset. Please help me. How can I tell him?

2006-10-10 06:41:24 · 14 answers · asked by lovesbettiepage 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My g/f (we are in our 30s) has a 15yo son who doesnt respect her in any way and is pretty unruly in general. She on the other hand has mentioned that she feels her parenting skills are lacking, which they are greatly. He is in counseling for his behaviour but id like to get her help on how to get better parenting skills. Where do i start? I may even get she and i relationship counseling as well to help us deal with her son. Thats the easy part but how do i get her help on how to be a better parent? We live in Indianapolis.

2006-10-10 06:41:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i have sworn that i was going to be without the um...company...of a man for a year. however, i don't know how to control my, uhhhh, cravings for a man. i've tried staying busy and tiring myself out and i've tried self gratification, but that seems to make it worse. now it's getting so bad that i atually dream about it!! any suggestions? it's only been like 2 and a half months since i've hd any!!

2006-10-10 06:41:07 · 9 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

i know this guy but he all he wants to do is sleep with me and i would want more than that...

2006-10-10 06:40:55 · 15 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everything is cats, cats, cats and it seems like she is second

2006-10-10 06:40:33 · 7 answers · asked by Fabio 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

not just a fling, we want to get serious, girls can answer as well i want everyones point of veiw

2006-10-10 06:40:33 · 30 answers · asked by alex 3 in Singles & Dating

Is It For You Or Someone Else To See ?

2006-10-10 06:40:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This has only been going on for the last two years and since his divorce. I have always tried to be supportive of what he does, and have never interfered in his relationships. Now I am being accused of bad mouthing him to his friends and other members of the family. If anything I always back him up. What could be the reason for this. I am very confused as I love him very much, but he is intent on hurting me whenever he can.

2006-10-10 06:39:48 · 26 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4 in Family

2006-10-10 06:39:43 · 10 answers · asked by Dana C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Didn't get me the beer in fact she tossed them all down the drain and she took the car and left. I'm down to my last smoke and no beer and should I call one of the call girl services to well hook me up? Its not like I'm wasting my money, I don't work :)

2006-10-10 06:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know, i like my man without tattoo's, i just dont think it's very appealing to look at...but thats my opinion...what do you think about your man, or men who have tattoo's, and as they grow older with them is it appealing, or not?.....

2006-10-10 06:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has liked me for ages, and the whole time he knew that didn't feel that way about him. Now I suppose I like him a lot. Meanwhile this was going on i kinda liked my other friend and recently he's started flirting with me. i get on really well with him and we're alike while the other guy I'm really starting to pretty much love him but he's starting to be kinda mean to me... but now that seems more attractive cause before he was all over me!!! HELP?!

2006-10-10 06:38:09 · 7 answers · asked by saibhe79 2 in Friends

I have been with my current bf for a year and a half, and we have a 4 month old little one together. I was the maid of honor in my friends wedding recently. The best man I met right b4 we walked down the aisle and we really got along. During the reception, my bf was basically not wanting anything to do with me, we maybe danced 2 songs together total. He wouldnt even dance with me when "our" song came on. So I danced with the best man, another groomsmen, and some friends the whole time. My bf didnt care, he instigated it half the time.
But I had a good time, the next morning, I woke up wondering if the best man was going to stop over my friends again. I got the butterflies, you know? And I dont think it was just about him, but the attention he gave me that i dont get from my bf.
So now I am starting to wonder if I should really be with my bf. If I can have feelings like that for another guy, what does that say about our relationship? What do I do? Tell my bf? Split with him?

2006-10-10 06:38:02 · 10 answers · asked by sumtimesforever 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there a girl on here that will show off her bubble gum blowing talents to me?

2006-10-10 06:37:48 · 8 answers · asked by stormbubble05 2 in Singles & Dating

do you walk around the house with an unsupported chest???

2006-10-10 06:37:48 · 27 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know, i like my man without tattoo's, i just dont think it's not very appealing to look at...but thats my opinion...what do you think about men who have tattoo's, and as they grow older with them is it appealing, or not?.....

2006-10-10 06:37:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm in a Friends with benefits relationship...Id like it to be more, but She says she's not ready for that yet, but we pretty much do everything like a couple. Anyway, the other night she was telling me how her EX kept calling her and she had to tell him to stop, then she said "I shouldn't be telling you this, your not suppossed to talk about your ex's with your boyfri........uh....guys!" Okay, freudian slip? or what???? Is she leaning that way???? Hmmmm. What do ya think, ladies???

2006-10-10 06:37:17 · 12 answers · asked by OTNEB 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with a young lady who said she loved me and loves having sex with me. I am well endowed, I work my own hours so we always have time for each other and I buy her things and we always go out, I gave her freedom to do what she wanted (never smothering)... But she still went out and cheated.... Please help me understand

2006-10-10 06:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by thee 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 33 female unmarried.we have a younger sister who is desperate to marry a guy who is a saddist,left one girl and drink even in the morning.we told her to take some time not to be weak.she is fighting with us to call him.please advise how to stop her desperation so that she can think and take time.

2006-10-10 06:36:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know, i like my man without tattoo's, i just dont think it's not very appealing to look at...but thats my opinion...what do you think about men who have tattoo's, and as they grow older with them is it appealing, or not?.....

2006-10-10 06:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 06:35:58 · 6 answers · asked by rebelbabi 1 in Family

he is no different then his other two siblings in a nice way but in a way that he will understand. He somehow thinks that his life compared to mine or my younger brothers is 5 stars and grammy award winning, to the point of me wanting to rip his cheap suit off and show hime who he really is. Question is how to do it?

2006-10-10 06:35:33 · 8 answers · asked by J J 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-10 06:34:59 · 2 answers · asked by Trish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This all happened before i even met my husband. Hope you can follow this. Joe (my husband) was best friends since childhood with Paul.. Well Pauls girlfriend Lisa cheated on him with Joe.. They had an "affair" for a while until Paul found out. Paul forgave Lisa & the affair ended.. Needless to say Joe & Paul's friendship was over... Well, when i started seeing Joe some of his friends filled me in with all the details about Joe, Lisa, & Paul. I asked him about it & he said it was true & he wished he could go back & change things.. Well I found out that lisa & him were still contacting each other & Lisa even sent him an email saying she missed him (yeah i snooped to find it). I told joe that if felt the need to stay friends with her, we couldnt be together. So he promised me he wouldnt contact her anymore. Well since we got married I found emails from them. I despise Lisa & he knows it. But he still talks to her behind my back. What should i do. I love him with all of my heart...

2006-10-10 06:34:46 · 11 answers · asked by Pissed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im trying to word this so they dont say i violate guidelines. talk to me

2006-10-10 06:33:55 · 7 answers · asked by James R 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-10 06:32:56 · 15 answers · asked by bellsouthboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

opposite sex. or who you would be atracted to.

2006-10-10 06:32:46 · 30 answers · asked by ga44male 3 in Singles & Dating