my younger sister is very desperate for a guy who is a saddist.we told her to take time and decide.she rejects

Question

i am 33 female unmarried.we have a younger sister who is desperate to marry a guy who is a saddist,left one girl and drink even in the morning.we told her to take some time not to be weak.she is fighting with us to call him.please advise how to stop her desperation so that she can think and take time.

Answer 1

In the end it is her life and if she wants to be the submissive or the masochist then let her be. If this lifestyle does not suit her later on then she can get out of it. I know it is a hard thing to wach but some people enjoy this stuff.

Answer 2

stage an intervention, if you are really that serious about it. But, people sometimes need to make there own mistakes, you can't force them to do things, all you can do is be there to help her pick up the pieces when its over

Answer 3

Occupy her time. Be there for her. Don't leave her alone. I know this sounds hard, but it's the only thing you guys can do for her. Also, you might want to take her to church!

Answer 4

unfortunately she is her own person... making her own decions... you can tell her all of the bad things...about her choices... she .. in the long run will make her own choices....you cannot make her do anything .... no one can sorry i know it hurts the best you can do is pray for her.....good luck and much love....A

Answer 5

she may have to make her own mistakes on this one. we all have trouble listening until we do it our own way and it hurts

Answer 6

what u mean by saddest? u jealous of her, u wish it was you,?

Answer 7

um...lock up ur stupid little sister.