ok, i have sworn that i was going to be without the um...company...of a man for a year. however, i don't know how to control my, uhhhh, cravings for a man. i've tried staying busy and tiring myself out and i've tried self gratification, but that seems to make it worse. now it's getting so bad that i atually dream about it!! any suggestions? it's only been like 2 and a half months since i've hd any!!
2006-10-10 06:41:07 · 9 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its perfectly normal to feel sexually frustrated ...just go with it - nothing much you can do really - till you are ready to enter another relationship...its no big deal really - we all gotta deal with it at some point in our life....till we are married - and even then he may be tired sometimes!!! :-)
2006-10-10 06:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you make that statement? I would look closely at why you made the declaration. If you have tried self gratification unsuccessfully, go to an adult store & look for some more ideas.... or you could head down to FL & I'll meet you somewhere....LOL
2006-10-10 13:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you make that promise? Therein lies the problem. Setting up a timetable of self-deprivation will not address the root cause. Why did you make that promise? What will 1 year change? What needs to change? And most importantly, who?
2006-10-10 13:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Eric C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever think about playing with girls ... lol ... !
Just think ... it's all about self-control ... if you're weak minded then you'll let anything get in your way ... if you were strong and you know exactly what you want ... you just have to make up your mind and do it ... that's how I quit smoking ... make up your mind and don't let your body do different ... simple ... you just have to want it bad enough ( or in your case not want it bad enough ) deep down in your heart you know what's right and what's wrong for you ... so listen to your heart ( hahaha soooo cheesy ... I know ... )
2006-10-10 13:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop torturing your self. Email me---It'll be alright.
2006-10-10 15:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a ***** buddy just to relieve all that tension your building up.....i can be that buddy, just let me know
2006-10-10 13:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why make yourself do something that you don't really want to do?
2006-10-10 13:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you against men? then try a girl
2006-10-10 13:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get through this!!!!! but why are you doing this?
2006-10-10 13:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋