I was with a young lady who said she loved me and loves having sex with me. I am well endowed, I work my own hours so we always have time for each other and I buy her things and we always go out, I gave her freedom to do what she wanted (never smothering)... But she still went out and cheated.... Please help me understand
2006-10-10 06:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by thee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I could give you a clear cut answer. I myself am married to a gem of a man. He is all the things above well, except the buying things and going out. HMMM Well, regardless he is still a gem.
Thing is that I am in love with another man. Have never let on or violated any trust but can't help the way I feel. If this other person felt the same about me and approached me I MIGHT consider being unfaithful.
What it comes down to is that no one person can be everything to another. People change too. People enter into relationships when they are at one point in their lives and end up at another.
And I firmly believe it is possible to love two people at the same time for their different qualities.
So why do we cheat/consider cheating...
1. desire for something new
2. appreciation for someone elses positive qualities and the desire to be around them
3. because we are still an animal deep down and crave sex
I wish I could tell you other than this but this is what I believe to be true.
2006-10-10 06:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-21 16:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she is no good or something is missing in the relationship. Don't get me wrong there is no excuse for cheating, but when we are crying out for our sig. other attention we do stupid things.
2006-10-10 06:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-27 15:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand woman who are never happy with a good life..I know a few girls who are like that,some woman just can't help them self..I am sure you will meet that special girl so don't let one bad apples spoil it for other girls..Just, forget about her she not worth your time...
2006-10-10 06:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by SUN FLOWER 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being a 1 min man
2006-10-10 06:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably cause your a cry baby. monster up man for god sakes. go get you another chick and keep gettin money.
2006-10-10 09:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by HUSTLER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her man, she doesn't deserve you. Hopefully she gets a guy with a tiny penis, no money, and is a jerk.
2006-10-10 06:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by rastapharri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gotta be something missing--emotional bond maybe?
have you asked HER?
can you forgive her, and accept her back?
2006-10-10 06:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not that into u
2006-10-10 06:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋