Okay, I'm in a Friends with benefits relationship...Id like it to be more, but She says she's not ready for that yet, but we pretty much do everything like a couple. Anyway, the other night she was telling me how her EX kept calling her and she had to tell him to stop, then she said "I shouldn't be telling you this, your not suppossed to talk about your ex's with your boyfri........uh....guys!" Okay, freudian slip? or what???? Is she leaning that way???? Hmmmm. What do ya think, ladies???
2006-10-10 06:37:17 · 12 answers · asked by OTNEB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say she wants you but she is not truly ready for a full relationship and if she used the bf word then she is really leaning towards something in the name of relationship lol
2006-10-10 06:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm - wow. Too many inquiries to even truly respond - if he's an ex, there is in all risk a good reason. enable sound asleep canines lie. If he screwed up after in easy terms a pair weeks - i could say good riddance. good success. Oh - and in mature relationships - "beat around the bush" is by no potential stunning.
2016-10-02 04:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is dating you to stay in her "comfort zone" until the ex-boyfriend is ready to come back to her. Because that's what she's waiting for. Him or a new guy. But you're not #1 and never will be. Sorry to say it. Don't waste any more time with this playette, find someone who will appreciate you. Or, put that "Welcome" mat on your back and keep laying down.
2006-10-10 06:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure seems like it. Maybe she is afraid of beign hurt again, hence the whole 'I'm not read yet." But still talk to her about it and get it out in the open because nothing is work than having your feelings hurt by someone you like.
2006-10-10 06:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you had this 'benefits' relationship? sounds like it may be more than that... but why isn't she going the whole way in?? really depends on why she's holding back.... school, her ex, not sure if she really wants to be with you.... what?? maybe she considers you as a half boyfriend.
2006-10-10 06:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by jami p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does ee you as a boyfriend. You're 'seeing' each other. I think shes not ready to have another boyfriend ofter her ex though. She doesn't want the title or the commitment. Wait a while.
2006-10-10 06:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you two are in an "no-name" relationship. You are a couple, but with out the titles. Go with it.
2006-10-10 06:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not a freudian slip, she might want more but not sure if it will work.
2006-10-10 06:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by dukefan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think she is leaning that way.
2006-10-10 06:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she does think of you that way. Cool! I'm happy for you! :)))))
2006-10-10 06:40:24 · answer #10 · answered by ts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋