not just a fling, we want to get serious, girls can answer as well i want everyones point of veiw
2006-10-10 06:40:33 · 30 answers · asked by alex 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think many men at 20 would want to get serious with an older lady unless he was just using her for her money..somewhere to stay...do his washing.. cooking like a mother figure..most 20 year olds want to play the field and not get all serious.
2006-10-10 06:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. I am 24 years old and tend to date guys in their late 30's. It is all a matter of preference. If two people connect then it shouldn't really matter how old they are. The only things that I have found to sometimes be a problem with older men is that they are ready to settle down a little quicker than i am. Good Luck!
2006-10-10 06:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that age doesn't matter, as long as both can get along and have things in common it shouldn't be a problem.
You know what they say that opposites attract, the 32yr has a lot more experience then the 20 yr. The young one is looking for someone to be a real women and not a immature S.L.U.T.
Go for it neither loose anything,
Wait!!!! yeah one of you will loose the virginity but that is it. Nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-10 06:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 20 yrs old I dated a woman of 39. It was a very exciting time and definately a learning experience. Was I capable of a true relationship at that age? nope! It was fun while it lasted but it was just a short time in my life...that I will always cherish...
She made me the man I am today.
2006-10-10 06:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is irrelevant in a relationships. If a guy of 20 finds u interesting and funny etc, then it wouldn't matter if u were 22or 32.
2006-10-10 09:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it mate, one of my girlfriends is older than me. Its not a problem....What will be a problem though is if she ever finds out I've been dating another woman for the past six months and unplugging the phones when that one arrives. This is not a joke, it's really happening and I'm starting to date a third. Somethings got to give eventually, I think I'll eventually be caught when one of them comes over to my house unannounced, my god, there will be hell!
2006-10-10 06:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by A True Gentleman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was 21 I lived with a 32 yr old woman the differences between us only became obvious then, some people can deal with the age gap but it wasn't for me I am afraid.
ps good luck to you both
2006-10-10 06:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately.
My brother is 25 he's dating a 32 year old. He loves her so much, and he thinks older women are great. Thy've been going out for 2 years. They are always happy.
2006-10-10 06:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heck I was 20 when I met my late wife and she was 38 then. We were together for 16 years (married for five) and I believe we would of had a lot more years together if she hadn't passed away. So the age difference is irrelevant if you love her.
2006-10-10 07:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by spear_1021 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a relationship when I was 35 with a man who was 19. It lasted over a year and it was fun. I don't think that you should really get serious. May-December romances rarely have longevity.
2006-10-10 06:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋