Me and my boyfriend have gone out for over a year now and we are sexually active. In the past, I have said no during sex but it was like a gentle no so he just kept on going. After that he apologized and made sure that it wouldn't happen again. I told him that it's ok and i really didn't mind. Since then we created our safeword and when we say that word it means a definite no.
We had a fight a couple days ago, but I went to his place in the evening and he pinned me down and made love with me. I was shocked and wanted him to stop. Part of me was however hoping that would make us forget about the fight and got us closer again. I said stop a couple times and was sobbing as it went but he just kept on going again.
He asked me afterwards if i didn't like it and that he's sorry, but I said it was ok, and he made sure again that I use the safeword (which i didn't).
I dunno what to do, it was scary when he did that but i didnt want to tell him that it hurt. It's my problem isn't it? :(
2006-10-10
07:04:12
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