Ive recently Lost my husband and daughter ( not to death but other things) My husband is in jail for life and My daughter is with a new family because of everything thats recently happened. and Im not doing so Well But when I try and Lean on my freind who promised to be there she ALWAYS has bigger issues. Which she doesnt Ive tired being her freind and Reaching out to her to show I care but she Treats me like Im the enemy.. She recently STOLE Valueable Photos of My daughter and then Denyed it but Then returned them and Blamed her 3 year old ( they where to high up for a 3 year old) How do I handle this Im so upset and hurt.
2006-10-10 07:16:58 · 5 answers · asked by Cadie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow, your a really good friend and she cant see it because she wants to up you,like you hurt your arm.she tells you that she broke her arm when its fine.its just like that.some people are there for what you have instead of your friendship.you should tell her why she treats you like an enemy. if she cant answer or gives a very bad answer. stop being her friend and lean on another friend who promised just like your "friend"did.
2006-10-10 07:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥kristin♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are only around when the going's good. If you honestly and fairly think that this friend is only making you feel worse then it's time to bid her farewell. You've got enough on your plate already without having to worry about this friend and what she'll do to you next. You don't have to turn into enemies, but don't depend on her and don't expect her to do you any favours. The people we're there for aren't always the ones that are there for us. Good luck!
2006-10-10 14:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to let things as they are, and dont start into a fight with this friend of yours. Your issues are far deeper and real and you know it more than anybody else. Just relax and take your mind off of things for a while.
Compose yourself and move on with your life, with or without the help of these people. You can do it!
2006-10-10 14:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Joy RP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the friend and find a support group that can help you in your situation! Good luck to you!
2006-10-10 14:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need that drama, get a different friend or better yet, a grief support group.
2006-10-10 14:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋