2006-10-10 07:03:56 · 15 answers · asked by bummy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOU ALSO SEVA TO YOUR WIFE IF YOU WILL DO SEVA TO YOUR MOTHER IN LAW FOR 10 TIMES IN A DAY. YOU WILL BE TIRED FOR YOUR WIFE. I AM JOKING WHAT IS WRONG TO HELP YOUR MOTHER IN LAW IF SHE IS IN NEED AND NO BODY OTHER TO CARE HER. IF SHE IS CREATING PROBLEMS WITH YOUR LIFE THEN KICK HER.
2006-10-11 00:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i do no longer think of i'd... she wno't rather be a procedures sufficient alongside for that.. would tenth is below 2 weeks away and the possibility for miscarriage is intense until 12 weeks so i does no longer bypass announcing issues like that in basic terms yet, God forbid something terrible happend. i'd in basic terms say happy mothers day to a girl who became for sure pregnant and clearly had a stable probability of wearing to term.
2016-12-26 15:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by calvete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a servant just for her. teach the servant to do all the tasks/seva that your m-i-l wants for you to do for her. Supervise the servant round-the-clock that she is looking after your m-i-l well. Out of the 10 times, do 2-3 tasks yourself & see to it that the servant does the remaining seva of m-i-l in impecable fashion. You will earn the respect & gratitude from your m-i-l that you cared enough for her to hire a servant. Please her in other ways by constantly asking after her well-being, cook special dishes for her, etc.
2006-10-13 18:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Gujarati language it means please take care of me. The word is added by me (please) because in Gujarati (most language)tone says more then the word.
I think she is just complaining type.
You are under her roof and roof in India is hard to come by .
So tell her politely Kru chu ne, Keru chu ne...... then add politely Say Sasumaji, tmu ne su jo, ee, e, che( please tel me what would you like).Pini Apoo(shall I bring you water or tea...).
Other alternative is to ignore, but that may be impossible.
Third possibility is to find another roof , so you have only one choice smile and keep her happy, keep peace in the house and make your husband appreciate you for that.
PS
Show this to your husband if you like.
2006-10-10 08:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur man "Ya to main ya tumhari maan 100 times a day"
or else poison her slowly
Give her sleeping pills so she'll sleep all day long
2006-10-10 07:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST THING IS TO SAY " SURE MOTHER IN LAW" AND KEEP A SERVANT , BUT DONT GO FOR DISPUTE B'COZ MOTHER IN LAWS LIKE DISPUTE VERY MUCH THEY ARE ALWAYS WAITING FOR A CHANCE THAT WHEN THE DAUGHTER IN LAWS DOES ANY ARGUEMENT AND WHEN I WILL START COMPLAINING ABOUT HER TO HER SONS NEIGHBOUS ETC AND MAKE A DAUGHTER IN LAW A VILAN IN OTHERS EYE , SO MY ADVICE IS TO LISTEN TO HER NICELY TRY TO TREAT HER MORE LIKE UR OWN MOTHER AS IF UR OWN MOTHER IS IN PAIN AND IF IT IS BEYOND UR CAPACITY ITS BETTER KEEP A SERVANT FOR ETC WORK AFTER WE DAUGHTER IN LAWS ALSO ARE HUMANS AND EVEN WE CAN HAVE SICKNESS AND PROBLEMS BUT ALWAYS BE POSITIVE, AND DONT TRY TO QUARELL KEEP PATIENT , NO MATTER WHAT EVER SHE SAYS CLOSE UR EYE AND COUNT TILL TEN, BE COOL MY FREIND, DONT TAKE STRESS I CA VERY VERY UNDERSTAND , TRY TO BE CALM AS POSSIBLE FOR UR LOVING HUSBAND AND LEAD A LIFE IN THIS WORLD LIKE A PARADISE
2006-10-11 21:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
am n't merried so i can't know about saas bahu.
but why don't u consider ur mother_in_law ur mother and give her respect.so when she will satisfied with u she never say that words 10 time a day.
2006-10-13 04:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it 11 times a day to her. ha
2006-10-10 07:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kristen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer 10 times "Matru Devo Bhava!"
2006-10-10 07:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
If she is so annoying than Poison her.
But U take care ok.
2006-10-12 03:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mona S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋