She's relly tired of boys using her and doing her wrong. And she is tired of being the only girl in her group without a boyfriend. And she's tired of going to all the school dances by herself.She is also tired of being depressed.Nothing ever seems to work out for her.
2006-10-10 07:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by pooky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't "turn" gay. And tell her that she should just have patience, because she will find someone when the right time comes. She shouldn't let her entire existence be caught up in whether or not she has a man anyway. Tell her to get a life outside of worrying about the opposite sex. Once she does, she'll meet someone when she least expects it.
2006-10-10 07:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I am so sorry. I wish I could give her a big hug. And not because I am a lesbian (I am) but because she is hurting. But you can't "turn gay". You are born to be who you are and you can't fake it with others. I am sure the right boy will come along. After all, I know that she must be a very lovely and creative person. What's not to like! :)
2006-10-10 07:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you cannot "turn gay;" a person may have bisexual tendencies and choose to explore their feelings about one sex or another, but people cannot just decide to stop being attracted to one sex and start being attracted to the other.
It's probably best for the girl in question to think about why she is "being used and done wrong." It sounds like low self-esteem may be urging her to choose boys who aren't right for her, or maybe for anyone. She should work on valuing herself and not worry about boys for a while.
2006-10-10 07:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of them are good enough reasons to turn gay.
You should turn gay if that what you actually want to be . Is it your sexual preferance to be with another woman.???
Otherwise it is an escapist attitude and I think The gay community should be offended by your reasons to turn gay.
If you are not gay inside you wont enjoy beeing with another woman and will get tired of that too. What will do then ??
turn to who ???
2006-10-10 07:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by A_and_Nid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "turn gay", you are born that way, just try to get involve in physical activity instead.
2006-10-10 07:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Stac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for guys for awhile, wait for them to grow up. I don't believe you get to choose whether to be gay or not, you're born that way.
2006-10-10 07:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋