I can understand if you grew up, or worked with a guy for a long time. But if you recently met a man at a club or social gathering, exchanged numbers and talk every now and then. Do you realy think he just wants to be your friend?
2006-10-10 07:16:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well the guy might have a different agenda but your gf, maybe she just wants to be friends. If she told you about it, then she's really telling you the truth. So dont act too possessive :-)
2006-10-10 07:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's cheating, and it's going on right in front of you. She is pushing the limit with you, seeing what you will tolerate from her. She is flaunting it in your face, as if to say "See! someone else wants me!" and to try to provoke feelings of jealousy in you. It is manipulative and passive aggressive, and it lacks integrity.
Cheating is maintaining relations with someone of the opposite sex; where those relations exclude you and can't happen in front of you. There is no way to justify or rationalize it.
It is mean spirited, disrespectful, and self-serving at your expense. Also, at the expense of your relationship, your trust, and her sincerity. Especially if she tries to minimize or rationalize it to you.
You can do better than her. She needs to have someone on the side to feel more worthy, desirable, and wanted. If she can't tell you that and respect you enough to fulfill her needs, than she will continue to do this with you, or others in her future.
Stand up for yourself. Tell her that you want to be a priority, not just another option, and if she won't choose, then you can do better. Then, if she sneaks around again, leave her.
2006-10-10 14:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me that seems Ify its understandable yes if shes known him FOREVER but unless hes married or dating someone else and they just met I would be worried I dont think if your dating a Guy and You go to a club and meet a guy HEs not just a Friend
2006-10-10 14:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cadie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say man. Is the guy gay? If so, you're cool. If not, I'd be skeptic too. I'm not saying that she's doing anything wrong, but I know that I'd be worried about it. What's she doing in a club without you anyway?
2006-10-10 14:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your a guy. Do you have any girls that are just friends ? If you keep in touch with a female is it because you have ulterior motives ? I would say 99% of the time the guy wants something.
2006-10-10 14:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes on her part. Girls can be just friends with guys. He might think it is more than just friendship. If you keep accusing her of something though, she probably will go ahead and do it. Relax.
2006-10-10 14:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by baileysmom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no!!! unless he is gay??? you already knew the anwser!!@##$ even befor you asked the question. may be she thinks of him as just a friend; but he does not!!!!!! good luck with that!!!
2006-10-10 14:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by lauriesthemom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋