What Would You Do If I Was Your Girl & A Guy Interrupted Our Dance??

Question

What would you do if he did it again and then later asked for my number in front of you after we left the club?

Answer 1

A mix of social skills, prudence in dealing with strangers and appropriate response are basic requirements insofar as self preservation of the couple and the peace is concerned.

Since woman's emancipation, it's the Girl's choice on how to handle, what some might construe as, an obtuse social intrusion.

Obvious is the fact that interest expressed regardless of the couple being seen together, shows that she has the X factor.

What could be viewed as contrived, is to allow the female gender to engage the opposite sex in polite conversation. This is no different in corporate dealings. It is at the same time, polite, tactical and reinforcing 'demonstratable' trust between the couple.

Unless the female partner was incapacitated or unable to reciprocate said advances, a gentleman under old rules of conduct would demand intervention.

Where under the age of chivalry of true form or in pretense, exist of older societies or the contemporary less well heeled, good form over etiquette should be exercise over a show of strength. The gentleman must, politely but firmly decline on behalf of the weaker gender.

Since 1800's and 1900's change of women's status in society, the age of chivalry is less applicable when rationalised but certain practical purposes apply where physical attributes may come to play under less than desirable circumstances. (Sorry, a cop out here if a detailed explanation was expected.)

Wherein:
- two and subsequently a third interruption;
- depending on body language of the acquaintance;
- in context of the collective club culture;
- repute of the club;
A gentleman should step in if there is a sense of threat. Regardless of gender, being blasé over strangers taken at face value, is no prevention against potential subsequent unpleasant encounters; No one in sobriety and self preservation, hands out phone numbers, save that of sales professionals.

Answer 2

Clearly it would all depend on how you dealt with the situation. Would you have been intimate with me during the dance (non-sexual intimacy) and decide to dance with him? Would you dance with him again after that? Would you tell him who I was? Would you have accepted his number? In light of all the facts you've provided, it would all depend on how you dealt with the situation. An interruption in a dance can be tolerated but if this stranger knows that we are a couple, he should have respect to back off. If he doesn't, why be there anymore with him around?

Answer 3

I am pretty sure my Fiance would have beat the crap out of him if he tried to ask for my number after being told i was there with him, but that is to be expected.

Its just disrespectful to do that. If you see a woman (or guy) there with someone else, it is not your place to approach them.

When i was 4 mo pg i went out with my fiance. We hung out together for about an hour in this one spot. His uncle came in and he strolled over there to say hi. This guy (who had been there the whole time we were and saw we were together) came over and tried to hit on me. My fiance saw him and slid back over and told him that I was there with him. The guy lied and said he didn't know that. (mind you i already told him when he came up in the first place)

Bottom line is some guys just dont care- but those are also the guys who shouldn't care if they greatly underestimate the opponent and get beat up...lol

Answer 4

I actually dealt with this. I tried to break a beer bottle over his head... but a good friend stopped me... and threw both me... and the guy outside the bar... and locked the door.

I proceeded to drag the other guy around the corner and beat him vehemently. I slammed him face first into a dumpster about 15 times and left him unconscious in a puddle of his own blood.

Answer 5

Tell him sorry...but this woman belongs to me, and if he had the nerve to ask for your phone# in front of me? then he had no respect and deserved to be treated accordingly

Answer 6

People have been killed for less. I don't go to clubs. No offense but, maybe you might agree. It's low life stuff.

Answer 7

laugh at his intense confidence the guy has in himself, and if you gave him your number,laugh at the idea that any woman would believe such a man would respect the woman he is dateing when he didnt respect that she was involved with a man already.

Answer 8

I would have to ask my girl can you believe this guy? You have a mouth say something to him before his is busted.

Answer 9

Well, I would watch and see how you take over. Its up to me to trust you. You got to show it baby. If you accept it, then you mean nothing to me and i'll find someone else.

Answer 10

Tell him you're happy with your relationship.