i been through a true love story that lasted three years things ddnt work and it ended.
i met this guy one month ago, we r good friends. but things develpoed to something more than friendship. something i can feel.he can feel it too, but we ddnt talk about it. i miss him alot, my heart beats fast when i c him, i think of him alot but still i cant c him as a lover ( imean i compare him with my previous lover) plz help wat is that i being through.
2006-10-10 07:10:55 · 6 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to ask yourself if you are ready to move on. Your feelings for you EX may still be too much for you to deal with right now. There is never any harm in meeting new people once you've moved on from a relationship, but many people "jump into the next boat" too soon. Only you will know when the time is right, but don't compare new relationships to the old ones, because it is not the same person. Take your time, only when you know you are ready can you truly move on.
2006-10-10 07:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem is, you need to let the past go. Certainly it would take more time. What you feel now is pretty normal.
Meanwhile have a good friendship with this guy and take more time to get to know him to give both of you a good chance. Time is the answer.
2006-10-10 07:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The issue boils down to your self-confidence, which you are lacking thereof. In your question you seem unsure and a bit insecure. Treat the new situation as an opportunity to find yourself and love yourself more. Then go out and find a new person when your confidence is restored.
2006-10-10 07:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on baby girl you need to get over your ex you just have to not think about him because its over and done don't let your past interfere with your future. You can't get no where like that but you will learn from your mistakes everybody do. You go to just be you I know there's plenty more guys out there that want to be with if yo like him like don't dwell on the past.
2006-10-10 07:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by andreamcklvy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this guy really wanted to be with you he would. if a friendship is all your looking for then tell him that the sex was a one time deal and that you still need him as your friend
2006-10-10 07:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in love...but your confuse
2006-10-10 07:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋