I am an avid swimmer at home. I want to join a local co-ed swim club which competes with other clubs. Fun! Here is the problem. All the men were competition style bathingsuits, Speedos. I am unfortunately a very well endowed man. When I wear a speedo it is barely contained and with the tight thin fabric you can make out the head and shaft detail at even a minimal glance. Not an issue when I am doing laps in my back yard. Is this a problem when half the team are women?
Ladies if you saw your teammate enter the pool area wearing a speedo that barely contained him and could easily see the exact contours of his memeber what would you do?
I really want to join this team as several of its members are friends and co-workers.
What should I do?
2006-10-10 06:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by calidzyner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have you tried different brands that might have extra fabric? I can understand not wanting everyone staring at your crotch, but its sad that this might keep you from a sport you enjoy. Do some research and online speedo hunting before you decide anything.
I'm sure I'd stare like everyone else, but eventually it wouldn't be an issue. Of course that doesn't make you feel better. But you see the size of women's chests through their shirt and sometimes see nipple too. Its just life. We all know you have a penis. So don't worry so much about details, unless you might fall out of the speedo. Then I'd definately suggest buying a bigger speedo!
2006-10-10 06:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Velken 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude! This is the first time I have ever heard of a guy embarrassed because he's got a big Johnson. I really don't think the ladies would care. You'd probably get stares and a few phone numbers. Do what women w/ big breasts do! Use it to your advantage.
2006-10-10 13:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would ask if speedo's are a requirement, or is there other bathing suits you can wear in competitions, By the way speedo's dont look good on any one so i wouldn;t be concerned about that but who realy wants to wear one... gross
2006-10-10 13:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by just wondering 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wear a style that you are comfortable with. If you can still compete and do well with the extra fabric it should not be an issue.
2006-10-10 13:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Speak to the coach there might be another solution for your little or should I say "big" problem.
2006-10-10 13:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought of being "very well endowed" as unfortunate!!
2006-10-10 13:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy of 5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they have new boxer type swimsuits, Make sure the water is cold, you wont have a problem
2006-10-10 13:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will juz stare it,,, not comment, juz staring at it... juz do it, if you really want to join the team.. dnt bother abt ppl looking or staring at u, coz they wont comment they juz starring...!
2006-10-10 13:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grose.put some tape on it!
2006-10-10 13:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋