i have been with my boyfriend for like two years now. we have had a pretty rocky relationship and its been mostly my doing. The thing is that i have a problem with being faithful. I have cheated on him twice this month with the same guy. I do love my boyfriend and i do not know why, i put myself into these situations. I dont want to tell him because, i know that i will lose him. Please tell me what i should do. I question myself like is this really love becasue, i know if it was i would not cheat. I feel so dirty and i hate myself right now. He has issues but, he is a good guy. help me please. I am so confused.
2006-10-10 06:21:33 · 7 answers · asked by bra$ilianlove? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to stop being selfish and let him go. If you were to marry him someday you would probably end up divorced. Look at the bigger picture. If your cheating then YOU are really not happy with the relationship anyway. Your not in love with him, your just comfortable, and your scared to leave your comfort zone. Remember, if he found out about what you are doing, your a murderer, you are killing his sense of security, and you will be to blame for that for the rest of his life. Let him go!
2006-10-10 06:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by ArticExplosion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can tell you now- that you're definitely not in love. Because if you were, why would you want to hurt the person you love?
Is it because you think you'll never get caught? You may never get caught, but what goes around, comes around- it NEVER fails.
The way you feel about your situation now, is nothing compared to the way it feels when you're cheated on.
Keep doing what you're doing, and we'll wait for the next question when you ask "How do I get my boyfriend back after he dumped me for cheating on him?"
2006-10-10 06:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably are in love with your BF but really it is a convience to have him around so you dont sit home alone at night, and you are cheating on him because the relationship is not what you want,
you should dump him and set him free to find someone who would appreciate him, you are not being fair,
2006-10-10 06:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It obviously isn't love if you're going to do something like that to him. You need to tell him what you did and if he's smart he'll leave you. It's utterly pathetic that you would cheat on him especially with how long you've been together. Maybe you need to date the guy you're cheating on him with.
2006-10-10 06:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just tell him. Either you're genetically wired to cheat, or you are doing it because of this insecurity...if you get the truth out, then you either won't be cheating because he's going to dump you (I would), or he will forgive and everything will be hopefully be alright
2006-10-10 06:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Richard H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep your legs closed...it's not that hard to do. you need to move on from this guy before you hurt him even more than you already have and NObody deserves to be treated the way you're treating him.
2006-10-10 06:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you're in love when your sense of loyalty overrides your desire to take your pants down and screw everything within range.
2006-10-10 06:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋