Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

my self and my boyfriend went out last night and we got very drunk.when we got home he wasn't to have intercoures but i didn't.when i woke up in the middle of the night he was on p of my having intercourse with me in my very drunken state. ididn't let him no i was wake so he doesn't know i know.i think hes hoping i don;t know.i don't understand wether its rape because i didn't cosent to it or wether its not because he is my boyfriend.

the only thing i do know is i did say no when i first got into bed and i was woken up by him doing it about 3 hrs later.

any ideas whan i should do or do you think i should just leave it and write it off as a bad night out?

2006-10-05 06:11:51 · 37 answers · asked by kate_gothic_slag 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think I should sit next to the girl that I have in mind? She caught me staring at her and I looked away a while ago. I think I have her enough time to cool off. She used to sit next to me but she moved since someone else was sitting in her seat. Someone else was sitting in my seat also. what do you think I should do?
I talked to her before like 4 weeks ago. I asked her name and stuff like that before.

2006-10-05 06:11:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We hadn't been as close during my abusive marriage. but we started hanging out I found out she was playing w/drugs w/her brother-Coke and Meth. She was also taking alot of OTC and prescription meds-sleep stuff, enough anti-depressants and pain meds to melow a cow. She parked her car in a canal bc she was high and drunk and out with a "new" guy in an unfamiliar part of town. In the mean time I met a great man and we hit off. She got jealous and through a guilt trip on me. She just made really bad choices for herself that usually got her into bad situations. She almost got raped twice because she was meeting guys on chat lines and then driving to meet them late @ night. for the last 2 months she has only called when she needs something or when she wants to ***** about how bad her life sucks. I feel used and I don't really have a friend anymore. Just a needy, negative person who blames her problems on everyone else and she she gets mean when I tell something good happened to me.

2006-10-05 06:11:15 · 16 answers · asked by Big Red 2 in Friends

I am not a very emotional person and i have been told that i have no heart because i dont cry very often. whats your opinion. am i hard hearted or just not that into letting others know how i feel.

2006-10-05 06:11:09 · 9 answers · asked by precious_mommy_of_1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this problem that when I'm really close to climaxing, I cant hold myself still enough for my boyfriend to carry on pleasuring me,. I really want him to carry it on because of course its really nice, but I find the feelings so strong I just cant relax and stop myself from writhing around, does anyone else experience this and have any tips to over come it and hold still?

2006-10-05 06:11:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a new boyfriend and i am trying to get some background info but i don't money to pay for the information

2006-10-05 06:10:45 · 2 answers · asked by grandma0618@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 06:10:13 · 11 answers · asked by Monica T 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has repeatedly been caught lying to me about talking to other women. He always has put the blame on me and never admitted that he was wrong. We are trying to work on our marriage but I find myself constantly wondering if he has changed. And advice for how to try to get over the past or can I>

2006-10-05 06:09:42 · 18 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

just want to know.

2006-10-05 06:09:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you still have feelings for her or is it just the curiosity

2006-10-05 06:08:58 · 9 answers · asked by castillo5247 2 in Singles & Dating

He is in the marines, so it makes it harder, since I dont get to see him alot..When he is in Iraq, he tells me how much he wants to be with me, but once he comes back to the states, things change..But I want to be with him and marry him, but he keeps stringing me along..And its so hard, what should I do, how do I attempt to get over him.

2006-10-05 06:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Mai Tai 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would you want to talk to your ex on the phone about anything other than the relationship if your ex boyfriend did you wrong and you have a new boyfriend in your life. I just got off the phone with my ex-girlfriend ( I called her cause I miss her and I want her back) she'll talk to me as long as its not about the past relationship. When we started discussing our past problems she got mad and said she has to go. Now if she has a new boyfriend why does she still wants to talk to me.

2006-10-05 06:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not a big fan of cake, it's just never been my favorite. Any suggestions for fun cake alternatives for a casual outdoor wedding would be appreciated.

2006-10-05 06:08:13 · 31 answers · asked by whoamihere32 2 in Weddings

my little sister doesn't shut up.
i know i should be there for her but she constantly thinks about should i have a boy friend?
and she constantly thinks there is something wrong with her.
she's 15 and she thinks there is something wrong with her if she doesn't have one.

i kinda think there should be boys that like her. but idk

do you think a girl at age 15 SHOULD have a b/f ??
when is the ideal age
and how can i get guys to like my lil' sis more?

ideas?
coments?

2006-10-05 06:07:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just want to know.and no gay clubs either

2006-10-05 06:06:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to find out how easy it is to trace a married person in cyprus, does anybody know the way to do it

2006-10-05 06:06:31 · 2 answers · asked by babsyj 1 in Weddings

2006-10-05 06:06:03 · 24 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 06:05:41 · 3 answers · asked by J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband does nothing around the house, and i do it all, his never thankful or says anything nice to me, he don't want to have sex, and he stays in our room, and tells me how worthless i am

2006-10-05 06:05:29 · 15 answers · asked by rockerad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you go into a room thats empty to have a fart so not to cause embarrassment and then return to the room with people in, the fart follows you!
How long do you have to remain in the empty room before its safe to return knowing the fart isn't following?

2006-10-05 06:04:41 · 23 answers · asked by Ian S 1 in Friends

We are a good christen family and my sister is gay,which most of us in the family accept even though God says it's wrong. I just got married 7 months ago to my very beautiful wife
Well I work far from home, So many times I'm out of town and my sister is staying with us.I was happy for my wife to have a friend and a relative there to make sure everything was ok. I was able to get some time off from work to come home early from my job and found them showering together.needless to say I was heartbroken,I can't believe that my wife would do this to me and what about my sister I can't figure that one out as well. I'm so hurt and upset at the both of them. they tryed to give me some lame excuse that they were just saving water(we are on well water) But from what I saw thats a lie. what would you do if your life just came to a halt why did god let this happen? I've been good

2006-10-05 06:04:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is how I speak to women.

Your beautiful. What is your name? Well, Sandy, I would really like to get to know you. Maybe I can call you sometime? Whats your number?

My friends say I need to run better game than that, they say I need to be smoother to get ladies. They say the way I talk is too starightforward. How can I improve my asking women out skills?

2006-10-05 06:04:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My room mate and I are looking to buy a home together but we would like to draw up a contract to enter into an agreement about situations that could arise (ex. Marriage, death one of us wants to move out) Any Ideas?

2006-10-05 06:03:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

relationship that wasnt even that serious. i have a wonderful partner (we are not yet married). we have been through alot and i finally moved here to his perm home base.he has started working like mad (12 hr days, 5-6 days/wk)and i have no friends here at all. i am not able to get out much. the thing is, all the old friends i had were really bad influences and selfish people. my partner told me that i need to have them out of my life which i agree with. i have even stopped talking to my own mother b/c she is a really nasty person. anyway, i just feel lonely esp. with him working constantly and we are even in midst of breakup b/c of all the problems. its hard to stay positive. i am in school currently but the ppl there are really not my type. (partying) anyway, feeling isolated. and i really want to hold my rel together but i have been really difficult. he is the only one i talk to so i am always venting. it is possible we may split up which i hate to think of. any suggestions?

2006-10-05 06:03:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband had 3 kids from a previous marriage, his ex had 2 girls with 2 different guys, and then they had a son together. My husband adopted the 2 girls when they were still married, and now we have been married for a year and she asked if I wanted to adopt all 3 kids. We got everything done and final, and now I don't know if we should allow her to see or have contact with our 3 kids or not. The kids are the most important things in this not how we feel, but I just want to keep them from getting hurt thru all this. Before we even adopted them, we asked the oldest 2 girls how they felt about it, and they were totally for it!! telling everyone about the good news!! Which the girls have been thru it befor when my husband adopted them a few years ago, so they knew how it all worrked. I think that it was all just to keep her(the ex wife) from paying child support on the kids.

2006-10-05 06:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I cheated it wasn't sexual, just physical. But now he always thinks I'm lying, makes everything my fault, talks down on me, and everytime we argue he brings up that incident, he goes through my phone, screens my calls, doesn't wnat me to have any male friends, gets mad when I go out as a group if males are present, but when I try to get him to go with me anywhere he doesn't want to.

2006-10-05 06:02:09 · 40 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 06:02:06 · 12 answers · asked by musclehead12279 2 in Weddings

First let me start by saying that I love and adore my wife. But our sex life is truly boring the heck out of me. When we make love it is always at the same time of night, in the same room, lights off, same position, etc…you get the picture. I have tried to talk to her about this several times and have made gentle suggestions for how we might try to spice up our sex life a little, such as being a little more spontaneous, trying different positions, maybe even buying a book about different positions. Each time I have suggested something, she says it’s immoral or that I’m being dirty and she drops the subject cold turkey. I have thought about suggesting that perhaps we should talk to a marriage counselor or a doctor that specializes in this sort of thing, but there are two problems with that. First, I wouldn’t know where to find someone who specializes in such things and second, I don’t want to hurt her feelings.

So, my question is, has anyone else been in this situation and if so, what did you do about it? Did things eventually workout for you and your significant other, or are you still just dealing with it? I don’t want to leave my wife and get divorce, but I am a healthy red blooded American man and I want us both to enjoy our sex life together. Serious and mature responses only, please. I really need some help with this…

2006-10-05 06:01:36 · 26 answers · asked by Desiderata of Happiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 06:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by gemma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've tryed lingerie, and things. But when he says no (which is quite a bit), and i try and push it, he gets angry...which usually ends up with my feelings being hurt.

2006-10-05 06:01:01 · 12 answers · asked by photofemale810 3 in Marriage & Divorce