2006-10-05 06:10:13 · 11 answers · asked by Monica T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably because you have 3 kids that it's hard to find a keeper.
most guys are really scared off be commitment and anything they think will keep them "trapped." I would just concentrate on your kids and being a good mother, and in time the right guy will come along.
2006-10-05 06:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jane D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its not hard lol. i was a mother of 3 kids when i found my man. he is my sons fathers best friend. we now have a daughter and im due in 3 weeks with ur second. he has since adopted my other 3 kids and never favored any of them over the other. they ae out there. and as a mom myself i know how hard it is to trust any man around my kids let alone trying to find time to spend with some one else other than my kids. guys are every where church, the local parks (usually single dads are there on sat and sun) the schools waiting for there kids to get out. all over just have to look.
2006-10-05 06:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating as a single mom is not easy, with trying to center your life around the kids and trying to work and take care of yourself. It is hard enough trying to get to know a person when it is just you, but then when you have kids, that makes it a little difficult. In addition, you have to watch out for those frieks that try to use your kids to try to get to you. A guy that really likes you will recognize that your kids is what make you the person you are. Good luck.
2006-10-05 06:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by anna b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to answer that yourself. There is a ton of baggage. The step father doesn't have the same rights, and he also is limited in discipline. There are a lot of parents who let their kids run wild and they spoil them too much and that's rough to deal with.
There's also the ex or ex's in some people's cases and also, you really can't enjoy that person like when your a young couple because of the kids.
You shouldnt' get mad at men for not wanting the pressure, stresses and responsibilities in those cases.
2006-10-05 06:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are not willing to except the responsibilies and drama of a ready-made family. There's baby daddy dilemas and sort of fuss to be dealt with. But, there maybe that special guy that won't care about that, that special guy that may cannot have children of his own, but always wanted a big family. So don't give up hope, just hang on until the right guy comes along.
2006-10-05 06:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by 2"CUTE"2B30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have 3 kids. You're finding out that either the guy doesn't want someone else's kids and even if he loves kids - are you willing to have one with him?
2006-10-05 06:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up my mother-in-law meet her 2 husband when she had 3 kid's and he took those kids in just as they we're hes very own and now they have 4 kid's and have been together for 30yrs.hang in there.
2006-10-05 06:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by Josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they are scared of other peoples kids, but don't let that stop you theres one out there 4 you. Sorry im taken the girl im talking to has 2 kids and it don't scare me
2006-10-05 06:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jorgio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are looking to start up a family of there own and not looking to date someone who already started theirs
2006-10-05 06:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's BECAUSE you have three kids.
2006-10-05 06:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋