Why would you want to talk to your ex on the phone about anything other than the relationship if your ex boyfriend did you wrong and you have a new boyfriend in your life. I just got off the phone with my ex-girlfriend ( I called her cause I miss her and I want her back) she'll talk to me as long as its not about the past relationship. When we started discussing our past problems she got mad and said she has to go. Now if she has a new boyfriend why does she still wants to talk to me.
2006-10-05 06:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said you called her. She might have been trying to be polite. The fact that when you started discussing your past and she didn't want to discuss it, should tell you, she wants to move on. Especially if she has a boyfriend. That's what's she's doing. That's what you need to do too.
2006-10-05 06:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still have feelings for someone and not necessarily want to be with them. She might miss you too just not in the way you do. When you share so much with a person in a relationship they become part of your daily life, and when they are no longer there you feel like they left a void. Sometimes the void cant be filled even if she has a new boyfriend, so you calling her lets her have a part of that past relationship back. This doesn't mean she wants everything back the way it was. If you cant be just her friend, it seems that's what she wants, then ask her to tell you if she would even give you a second chance if she says no then don't call her anymore. Save yourself the trouble of trying to figure her out, it seems she moved on, you should too.
2006-10-05 06:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by LaWicked1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cares for you, but many times our poast hurt us to the point we avoif it in order to keep getting hurt. Instead of bringing up the past you should try getting to know her again. SHe might be a toptally different person now than who she was when she was with you. Things change. You might be surprised to find out she wants you back too, you will never know if you don't try. Just don't bring up the past. It is clear she no longer wants to relive that.
2006-10-05 06:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no reason why she'd wish to talk with you. And it seems obvious that she does not. So if you wish to no longer be hurt by her actions, then I would suggest you no longer call her. It's that simple. It appears that you're the one who seems to be in denial.
2006-10-05 06:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably thinks of you as a friend now, its kinda selfish on her part though
2006-10-05 06:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋