Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

For the boy and the girl.

2006-10-05 23:25:43 · 18 answers · asked by Lisa V 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 23:24:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just went through the final stage of my divorce. I have physical custody of the 4 children, 15,13,11,9. She has visitation rights, except she has her boyfriend living with her, and i do not want the kids near him. He is one of the reasons for the divorce and he is still married and has his own 3 kids. His kids live with his wife. My x-wife says her boyfriend will stay elsewhere while the my kids stay over night with her. I truthfully dont want the kids staying with her at all because of this immorral lifestyle. I probably shouldnt feel like that but i do. Should i let the kids stay the week end with her and him or what?

2006-10-05 23:22:12 · 21 answers · asked by james.ampmerch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont fake it anymore as my husband to be in 2 weeks allways makes sure i do i dont fake it otherwise id loose out and plus he wouldnt improve lol but what do you guys and girls think should we do it ? does it make you guys feel better about yourself ? or would you prefer us not to? xx

2006-10-05 23:21:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi. Could you tell me if this is classed as cheating.. Sometimes I visit prostitutes but only have safe sex (with a condom) is this classed as cheating? It means nothing as I dont have any feelings towards the prostitute. I only do it because I get a bit bored with my wifes sex.

2006-10-05 23:21:22 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do about my best friend?
I have known my best friend (girl) for 2 years now. I am a guy. We used to be so close, and did absolutely everything together. Now she has a new boyfriend, who she told me about even before they got together. She does everything with him now. When he is not free she decides to text, phone or meet me just to staisfy me, not meaning it . Basically only when convienent for her. When I try to not talk she eventually asks me to meet with her, putting more strain and hurt into me.
I am in two minds with this relationship - either to leave her to it, and let her come and find me when she is ready, or just to stay with her and feel a lot of pain inside. I try to tell her how I feel but she gets angry and so does her boyfriend. I am also jealous and feel very lost.
She is changing. I don't know what to do anymore.
I feel I try my hardest to like her now but it is very difficult after what has happened. The more time goes on the more frustrated I get.

2006-10-05 23:18:02 · 16 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Friends

could we call that lying/cheating/unfaithfulness/what?

2006-10-05 23:17:34 · 19 answers · asked by Alam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and me are always togather but today when i called him he didn't pick up... i left messges .... then he called me after a hour.....he said,he's busy...so ...i told him to meet me at a restarunt ,,be he was not there.... i called him ...aging and aging at collage.....he was with a other girl ......he said. that we'r still gf and bf................but every time i try to meet him....he's with the same girl aging ang aging...my friend told me that they had sex.......after days passed ..he told my we'r still bf and gf...but he's always with the same girl every single day....is he lieing ????? :(

2006-10-05 23:17:02 · 14 answers · asked by barkha_hk 1 in Singles & Dating

and attract him without having sex

2006-10-05 23:16:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im not asking how a tattoo feels! so dont say "imagine a needle going in and out of ur skin at a bazilion miles per hour".. cuz ive heard theat so many times and its so frikin koRny

2006-10-05 23:14:37 · 13 answers · asked by mikee g 2 in Family

He works long hours, and will often bring work home and shut himself away in the study till late. We don't seem to do anything as a couple any more. How can I get him to slow down and remember that theres life away from work?

2006-10-05 23:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by michelle s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know it sounds naiive but why is it that when your heart is breaking, it seems like nothing in the world matters and you cant do anything anymore at all, like you'd rather stick a knife in thru chest! why is that?

2006-10-05 23:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by Ggirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl named Kacie.Kacie lives far away from me,she comes visit my friend,her cousin Jessie during the christmas holidays.I had a feeling Kacie liked me when she was sitting next to me one day she'd rub her arm against mine and she'd smile at me for a long time.She'd make eye contact with me often,but she always stayed quiet around me.Well I asked Jessie to ask Kacie out for me.Jessie got mad at me,telling me that Kacie was a player. Which shocked me that she would say this about her because they were best friends.Jessie told me that she called Kacie and that Kacie said she hated me and would never go out with me.I was shocked but it didnt bother me til 3 days later when Jessie asked me out.The more I thought about Kacie the more I thought Jessie lied to me.Next christmas Kacie came over and 2 of my friends were there.Kacie flirted with me like crazy,laughing at all my jokes and ignoring everyone else,giving me all her attention.Is kacie teasing me or does she really like me?

2006-10-05 23:09:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY WIFE KICKED ME IN THE NOSE AND ALMOST BROKE IT, BUT IT REALLY TURNRD ME ON AND WE DID IT ALL NIGHT? IS THAT WEIRD? WHAT DO THEY CALL IT WHEN YOU GET TURNED ON BY PAIN?

2006-10-05 23:08:35 · 25 answers · asked by matt l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 13 and so is my girlfriend. we think we're ready for sex. ive had sex with her once before and i use a condom (and i still will). is this bad?

2006-10-05 23:07:22 · 17 answers · asked by Shane S 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a woman called at mid night couple days ago and i answerd her..she's so stupid to call him at home x-(...plz tell me what to do

2006-10-05 23:07:07 · 15 answers · asked by sara_kady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I do have a friend in Russia,whom i have never seen her face physically,but we have been communicating for almost 3 months time up to now,how will i know if she is not cheating?cause i had request her address lately she didnt give me,at this time i have asked her phone number,i dont think either if she will provide for me.How will i investigate about this??

2006-10-05 23:07:06 · 14 answers · asked by Domino 2 in Singles & Dating

Have any of you called off your wedding days or weeks before or had it called off by their partner? What did the guests/relatives say and the ones who had flown from far afield? What was the outcome? Or did anyone only stay married for a few months? Just curious!

2006-10-05 23:05:05 · 15 answers · asked by jaygirl 4 in Weddings

This morning i thought my boyfriend had gone to work an i got up and went to the loo (still half asleep) - left the door open - as you do when home alone - and well to be blunt - my bottom was very loud a number of times - i then realised that i hadnt heard the door slam and infact my boyfriend was next door and could hear everything -( I dont ever fart infront of him well not intentionally) He was so embarassed that he left without saying goodbye - Im mortified - Has this ever happened to you.??

2006-10-05 23:04:22 · 48 answers · asked by moo 2 in Singles & Dating

plz write which 1

2006-10-05 23:02:06 · 14 answers · asked by cheekykitty14 1 in Friends

I need help on kissing !! my bf wants a kiss..But i just dunno how to..It will be my first time..what should i do?? Does it come naturally or just go with the flow?? OMG !! plz help me..

2006-10-05 23:00:47 · 13 answers · asked by Cassie 3 in Friends

I live in SW London - ideally we'd like to avoid using the car, because we do like a drink. We can't do anything overnight, because we have a 15 year old daughter. We can spend some money, but nothing hideously expensive

Thoughts? Suggestions?

2006-10-05 22:59:17 · 5 answers · asked by mattygroves 3 in Marriage & Divorce

1. the cool
2. the uncool
3. there ugly
4. there thick
5. any other plz write and explain why u choose this

2006-10-05 22:58:32 · 30 answers · asked by cheekykitty14 1 in Friends

more..not even on IM because they know I already love someone else. I think we can just chat on IM but they have started to ignore me and I feel wierd.

2006-10-05 22:56:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im really heart broken when my very good friend (yeah hes my crush) did not get back in touch with me....its been over 3 weeks he's not really bothered to contact me back....be4 he left (hes gone u london for studies) we were like always on text msging ... yeah we used to talk all non sense...crap...flirt....solvin problems... n tht made me fall for him.... i made him this card sot of thingy too wen he left...he appreciated it very much... he asked me to mail and all....now hes gone he din really try n get back in contact!! i mean we were soooo close.....and shared almost everthing... now i have written this mail telling him all this tht he did not bother to reply (i mailed him 3rice each weekend) and whenever he chatted online he never spoke...

ive witten in the mail about me being hurt n tht i was a fool waiting for his mails. and tht he did not bother... should i mail him or no???

HE JUST PLAYED AROUND WITH MY FELINGS :'(

or do u guys think hes busy adjusting?nahh 3 weeks???

2006-10-05 22:54:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 22:53:26 · 29 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Singles & Dating

i know a girl,she is beautiful and has excellent manners,but i am older than her by ten years,is there a chance of a successful marriage?

2006-10-05 22:52:16 · 28 answers · asked by dan d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just don't get it I like mine Fuzzy and Manly , I am a bit repulsed at the hairless , beardless womanly looking men that seem to proliferateing the world.

2006-10-05 22:51:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think i might love this guy thats talked to me a few times. he said he noticed me about 2 and a half years ago when he started working at wal-mart. he said the only reason he didnt talk to me before was because he thought my bros was my boyfriend. after that he said that he will see me around and asked me to come by his work places and gave me a list of his jobs and when hes there. i havent seen him in a while but a friend of mine said he has been looking around for me and that he wont talk to any other women like he talks to me. im going to wal-mart where he works at this saturday but im afraid he wont like me or he might think im too young. my dad told me to date him if he wants to date me but my mom told me not to because of where hes older. can u please help me?

2006-10-05 22:50:00 · 10 answers · asked by deamon 1 in Singles & Dating

i know a girl,she is beautiful and has excellent manners,but i am older than her by ten years,is there a chance of a successful marriage?

2006-10-05 22:49:47 · 17 answers · asked by dan d 1 in Marriage & Divorce