more..not even on IM because they know I already love someone else. I think we can just chat on IM but they have started to ignore me and I feel wierd.
2006-10-05 22:56:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did I do something wrong?
2006-10-05 22:59:31 · update #1
they're not ur friends. I think you've got 2 options either decide the few u like the best & talk 2them 2 try & salvage something or (what i'd do in your situation) leave them, invest in real solid friendship with a different group of ppl
2006-10-05 23:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you did some thing wrong or they wouldn't be treating you this way. Someone may be passing around a photo of you picking your nose, or perhaps there is a rumor circulating that you are a child molester or something much worse. You have to make a list of the people treating you weird, but keep it to yourself for now. These people are your enemies.
You should change your appearance as much as you can in case it is the photo scenario. This will also confuse your enemies so they will not be able to spread their lies about you so easily. If you have long hair cut it boyishly short and dye it to the opposite of what you have now. If you have thick eyebrows pluck them bald. If you have thin or groomed eyebrows attach thick, false eyebrows and where them always. If you normally dress nice get into dirty, torn Jeans and sweat shirts. Don't say anything to anybody who is on your enemies list. They will only use it to find ways to hurt you. You should find out who their ring leader is and start damaging rumors about her.
2006-10-06 06:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural. Probably they were not in it for the "friend" thing. If they were really good friends it wouldn't matter if you are in love now, on the opposite they would be happy about it.
So just forget about them if they're not interested in communicating and focus on your real guy instead.
You can try to make new friends but since it seems you're not really good at keeping the balance I'd say you had better be very clear about your position before you go ahead. Unless you just want to play around then anything's fine.
Be honest and open with your friends. If they don't like it then... Well, then they're not your friends :)
2006-10-06 06:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Hansinchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are wierd. I had a lot of guys who claimed that we were good friends until I got back together with my husband. Then they decided to not talk to me either. Of course, it could be out of respect to my husband, but I think more likely that they were trying to have a relationship to start with but just playing it "cool." Just blow it off.
2006-10-06 06:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people only want to talk to you when they have hope that there is something in it for them. Take the hint. The guy is not interested in you as a friend.
2006-10-06 05:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to feel wierd cause they are respecting the relationship you have.
2006-10-06 06:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lizzomail i think your kinda rude.
and i'm not to sure i understand your question but if they don't want to talk to you its their loss don't get too stressed about it the important thing is that if your happy who cares what other people say or don't say.
2006-10-06 06:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by brownie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not "available" anymore so they are looking else where. if they wanted friendship, they would still be glad to be around you.
2006-10-06 06:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, what do u mean ??
2006-10-06 05:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by relyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋