Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

Gets upset with me for eating dessert after dinner? She says "you already ate enough at dinner you don't need anymore". I didn't even have a big dinner. Every time she see's me eat anything she looks at it, and either makes some comment about how I'm eating too much or how fattening it is. One time i was making a salad and she said i better not eat anymore than that for lunch. I am not fat, about 5'8'', 140lbs, and i run about 5 miles every day plus go to the gym 3 or 4 times a week. I have a history of eating disorders, and I think my grandmother knows it, but is in denial about it because she practically started it. She started telling me i was fat at 16 years old. She raised me, so we know eachother quite well.
I sometimes fly off the handle when she makes a remark. I feel bad because she is 86, and she tells me how aweful i act towards her and how i have no respect for elders. But what i am suppose to do when she perpetuates the problems that i have with food?

2006-10-05 19:03:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Before my marriage to A, i am dating concurrently with B and C. B and C knows each other well, and A,B and C talks to each other. 2 years ago, i married with A and got a baby now. Lately i got in contact with C, and i find that we still loving each other. Now, C is trying to avoid me, but i can sense C still love me. And too, i didn't call C.

What should i do? FYI, i actually love C as much as i love A. Well, i love both actually. And C actually has a boyfriend, and B got married

- copy and paste from "PROBLEM LOVE" article -

2006-10-05 19:03:41 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Logic 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 19:03:33 · 3 answers · asked by chinita_13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when i think about ever having kids,
I think about things that can go wrong to the kid.
so many malformations or problems the child could be born with.
is this stupid to even think about?
do others worry about the same thing?

2006-10-05 19:03:28 · 7 answers · asked by Quiz Master 1 in Family

This girl and I have been friends for years, but lately, it seemed like she was flirting with me. I confronted her and stated that I did not want a relationship. She seemed taken aback and told me she never intended to flirt with me. Anyway, we are good friends again, but now I still catching her glancing at me in a group setting and spending just as much or more time with me. What is going on here?

2006-10-05 19:02:25 · 10 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel that money is one of the main reasons of conflicts in married life? Any tips on how to deal with money matters in married life?

2006-10-05 19:02:01 · 11 answers · asked by jsd 1 in Family

My Mom used to tell my Sister "oh yeah?...Well I love you."...which made her even madder....

I tell that to my son now...

If this has happened to you....What do you do?

2006-10-05 19:01:58 · 23 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

my poor buddy is 21 years old but he's a virgin. I feel bad but he's just shy. he's good looking but just cant talk to girls. I dont have a problem talking to girls but he never wants to go out to bars and parties cuz "he doesnt fit in". I want to help him cause he's to shy/lazy to help himself. I'm afraid if he doesnt learn to communcate with girls now he's going to be a "40 year old virgin" helpp me help him thanks

2006-10-05 19:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by ahh help 1 in Singles & Dating

Besides saying hi.

2006-10-05 18:58:21 · 19 answers · asked by stephenjlb 3 in Singles & Dating

he's like my internet boyfriend. we were chatting a lot. everyday.we use to send each other sms and stuff. and it was very weird i trusted him so much.he used to describe me as hot and smart.and i loved that.he was great looking, sexy, great character.he was just everything i wanted.i wasn't really in love as i was infatuated.then, one day i was chatting with him behind a stranger's name and he agreed to roleplay her (me). i felt really bad, and i didn't wanna talk to him for a while. hoping he'll call, but he didn't. and now i'm just missing him toooo much and can't stop thinking of him and his amazing touches he described! so should i just call or write and tell him that? or let it go and lose him forever??!!

2006-10-05 18:57:47 · 10 answers · asked by Joy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 18:56:42 · 16 answers · asked by President 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this dark and charming girl who happens to be my colleague. The thing is, I want to propose her but she is a non-veg eater and I, not. Would it be a bone of contention, 'cause I dont want non-veg in my home. Can it be sorted out?

2006-10-05 18:56:19 · 12 answers · asked by helloall 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so I totally fell for this clever guy at work. he dumped me after he found out his ex still had feelings for him and it's just really hard to work around either one of them. He's confused stil... but likes her more than me so that's why he decided to just screw me over. I think quitting would be immature or I'm not sure if I should I just pretend like everything's fine wihen it isn't or should I just ignore them both at work which is kind of hard because i wwork as a waitress with like 4 other people. any suggestions on how to deal with this messed up situation?

2006-10-05 18:54:17 · 11 answers · asked by TashaSSS 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife compares my doodle with a sewing needle. Why does she do this?

2006-10-05 18:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by Eaglesrule 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 18:53:26 · 20 answers · asked by soundlady 5 in Singles & Dating

i want to propose one of my best friends, but warry about - if she refuse then our frindship will effected. Plz help me.

2006-10-05 18:52:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Until recently, my father's family feuded so much that they couldnt be in the same room. After I was diagnosised with cancer....it was a wakeup call to them. I wish things had been better sooner. We rarely had family get togethers when Grandma was alive. My kids and I hardly know most of the cousins that didnt live locally. I have made an effort to get to know them and I really enjoy their company...but all the years of hard feelings have taken their toll and no one wants to participate in family reunions!

2006-10-05 18:52:28 · 6 answers · asked by Kimberly 3 in Family

The thing is, i dont want another relationship at least not right now, but i dont know if i want to become that guy, i feel bad just hooking up with girls and then not calling them when i know they are definitely expecting something, is there an easy way to tell girls that this is all i want without ruining my chances or is this just completely wrong? What do you guys think?

2006-10-05 18:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in August. I am planning on ordering my gown in March or April. When I go dress shopping, should all my bridesmaids come with to look for their dresses, or should I look for my dress first and they come with after I order mine (like for a fitting). I am having a hard time with this... just exactly when to do what. So any links to good site would be helpful, I joined theknot.com but its doesn't have an answer for this question.

2006-10-05 18:50:47 · 17 answers · asked by space 2 in Weddings

always try to defend himself when i accuse him of being with other women....what does this mean?

2006-10-05 18:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by datgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are the signs of depression?

2006-10-05 18:49:37 · 20 answers · asked by endless_eternity_forever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-05 18:47:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you think its possible for someone who has been in a sexual relationship before (perhaps many of them like 20 of them) to be in a relationship with someone who is a virgin and wants to wait until they know they love the person (not until marriage, but just until they are in love and feel they are loved back)?

2006-10-05 18:46:49 · 23 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

4 months ago I was going out with
This guy Angels Best Friend Daniel. Well me an
Daniel Broke up.. and well me an Angel got closer.

I mean real close. I dont know what he doesnt
know about me.
We Fall Asleep on the phone
[ use to ] till he got it taken away.
We talked a lot on the way to class.
After Class. Ect.

People are always asking if we are together
the thing Is He likes me
An I dont know if
I like him back. its weird i
just have no Clue.
I mean I think about him a lot.
When I talk to him
on the phone i smile a lot.
I just, um im so confussed
for some reason I dont know if I like him.
An i dont know why
I cant figure it out.
I have to tell him tomarrow
[ i promised ]
What do you think?

2006-10-05 18:45:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I flirt with a guy through e-mail or IM?

2006-10-05 18:45:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 18:45:07 · 13 answers · asked by gul_m 1 in Friends

Lately I've been feeling really bad about my mom losing her father a couple weeks ago (she also lose her mother less a year ago). So it has been difficult to talk to her lately. So I would like to know what I can talk about with her?

I moved away from state she live in two months ago. My sis and half bro live with her and her husband. However I feel responsible as oldest child to help my mom out some.

Should I try talk to her about a girl I am sorta of seeing? Should I tell her about my boxing match even though she hate it? What should I try talk about with her? I would really like to talk about something that make my mom feel a bit better.

2006-10-05 18:45:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-05 18:44:56 · 18 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-05 18:44:04 · 8 answers · asked by AGENT SMILES 1 in Family

2006-10-05 18:43:39 · 16 answers · asked by west 2 in Marriage & Divorce