Family & Relationships - 5 October 2006

hey im a boy who is 14 and on my first date, and i have no idea what to talk abwt. i usualy sit there listening... im a usualy talkative guy but i have no idea what to say, how to say it, and how she will react. she seems to be losing interest in me and i dont know what to do... the other thing i want to know is what kind of things make a girl blush (i rely dont know how else to say it lol)

2006-10-05 18:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by no 1 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are happily married and after 5 years of traveling all over you decide to have kids and was told you can not have kids, would you be okay with that and consider yourself lucky (no diapers, no responsabilities, no lack of sleep) or would you be devasted?
Would you adopt even if it's $30,000?

2006-10-05 18:23:16 · 21 answers · asked by ani2525 3 in Family

i just feel there's something missing,..
maybe because i've been tru a relationship for a year,. and everyday we wer togther but then i dont want him back but i still feel alone,..i think im crazy!!!

2006-10-05 18:23:11 · 16 answers · asked by 00_tyradjh_00 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister told us that my mother is pretending to be crazy. She had no remorse in saying that. She didn't visit my dad because she said she had no babysitter. I tried saving the "sisters relationship" for years, but it never worked. She avoids talking about my mom's illness becuase she thinks I'll ask her for some money. (she's not broke; she has plenty, she has a brand new house 2 cars, and only wears high-end purses). My mom's illness costs me a lot of money, I even had to spend what I saved for my business and I don't mind. I finally asked her for some help, she gave me $50 . For her, that's how much my mom's life worth.

2006-10-05 18:23:10 · 5 answers · asked by Angelina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents divorced when I was four and my brother was one, after that, half the time we didn't know where he was, and was always making excuses why he wasn't there when he said he would be. But I loved him and I loved the times I did get to be with him. 6 years ago my first husband passed away, and shortly after that my dad decided it was time to be a father, He would complain when I wouldn cancel my traditions with my mom and her family to be with him and his on the holidays. He'll call and ask why we hadn't called to wish him Happy Birthday, or Happy Father's Day yet. Even as an adult he never comes to see me, just complains when I wait to long to come to him. 2 months ago, I moved away from my family, and when I left I didn't tell him I was leaving, and I haven't talk to him since. I know I hurt him, but he doesn't even call my mom to see if I'm doing good. He sees my brother all the time, and hasn't even asked him. I don't know what to do, I miss him alot.what do I do

2006-10-05 18:22:53 · 6 answers · asked by Tina W 1 in Family

2006-10-05 18:22:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 18:21:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my problem, my husband's old high school friend is a really great guy and I really like him as a person- but he has made some bad choices in his life.
he has 5 children ( with 3 different women) and he works at a burger place. needless to say, he doesn't have a lot of money.
my husband and I are doing okay, we both have good office jobs with benefits and we save and invest our money.

Everytime my husband is with his friend jim, jim always hints that he can't afford his bills,food... ect. and usually, my hubby buys him or pays for whatever jim is hinting about.. jim doesn't make wise financial choices- he bought an xbox360 instead of paying his car payment. and guess who helped him out? .. he eats out a lot and spends most of his money on booze. I've talked to my husband about this- ( we're saving to buy a home and prepaping to start a family.) his response is " the guy needs help." I've even talked to jim in a very gentle way. nothing has changed. please help.

2006-10-05 18:21:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-05 18:21:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl in a class that I like and got to know, but very little. I text-messaged her a few times in the past couple of weeks and she responded friendly and nicely. Today we have been texting each other almost for half of the day and I had a feeling it was time to stop but I went on and all of a sudden she quit replying. What does that mean? Should I have just stopped when I knew it was time to stop? I asked her if she has a job and she said no, and then I asked her what does she normally do during her free time from school and she did not respond after that. Was that question too personal for the length of time that I knew her? I don't understand. Or maybe I should text her less next time? Where did I go wrong????

2006-10-05 18:20:58 · 9 answers · asked by trillionaire 2 in Singles & Dating

wht if u find out the guy who u liked.... was exactly like him.... and who betrayed u by playing with your feelings....u knw tellin u stuff which makes you fall for him and at the other end hes flirting too with others..

2006-10-05 18:20:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your preference

2006-10-05 18:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 2 months from being 16. I am not in the best living situation and need help to get out of it. And don't know how.

2006-10-05 18:19:40 · 1 answers · asked by sexy_hot_slippery 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like to role play when we have sex and it makes my wife feel uncomfortable. Is it bad to this.

2006-10-05 18:18:11 · 14 answers · asked by Froggy_45 2 in Singles & Dating

yeah now the question is... wht if u find out the guy who u liked.... was exactly like him.... and who betrayed u by playing with your feelings....u knw tellin u stuff which makes you fall for him and at the other end hes flirting too with others..

2006-10-05 18:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about sex, lingerie, preferences etc. rather than ask about politics?

2006-10-05 18:17:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know of 2 friends who really like each other, but they dont go out because of their differences.

what do u think of a really preppy guy and an alternative emo rock chick dating? have u seen it before?

2006-10-05 18:16:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my problem, my husband's old high school friend is a really great guy and I really like him as a person- but he has made some bad choices in his life.
he has 5 children ( with 3 different women) and he works at a burger place. needless to say, he doesn't have a lot of money.
my husband and I are doing okay, we both have good office jobs with benefits and we save and invest our money.

Everytime my husband is with his friend jim, jim always hints that he can't afford his bills,food... ect. and usually, my hubby buys him or pays for whatever jim is hinting about.. jim doesn't make wise financial choices- he bought an xbox360 instead of paying his car payment. and guess who helped him out? .. he eats out a lot and spends most of his money on booze. I've talked to my husband about this- ( we're saving to buy a home and prepaping to start a family.) his response is " the guy needs help." I've even talked to jim in a very gentle way. nothing has changed. please help.

2006-10-05 18:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Yeah i'll be at school and i see this really cute girl and she comes up to talk to me and then all of a sudden i get an erection! I CANT TALK TO GIRLS BECAUSE OF THIS, what can i do to solve this? Is there anyone else out there with this problem? This is no joke i have a serious problem, i am only 19 years old, help!

2006-10-05 18:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do men in that age range think about the woman asking them out? Do you think its ok or do you think that the man should always ask the woman out? How would you react if someone who looked that young (and you didn't know their age) asked you out?

2006-10-05 18:15:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright. Saturday night Im goin to my buddies to booze and jus chill, theres this girl I have this sort of connection with and wanna hook up with her but supposedly she likes a different 'type' of guy. Unfortunately I look a little younger than my age but I have a feeling she is slightly attracted to me...and I wanna hook up with this chick. She is good friends with my roommate and a couple of my good friends. If I go for the kill or indicate in some way I want her, who knows what will happen and how things could go wrong. Is it even worth feeling weird around her in the future(if she gives me the no-go...and with her being friends with my buddies). I dont know . Help should i go for it in a very slick way, how should i deal with it? and if she declines? .................Sorry it can be confusing and complicated a lil, but thats why im asking.

2006-10-05 18:14:44 · 5 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband could use so new work shoes. I would rather give than get anyway. Does anyone think i should care for him first.?

2006-10-05 18:14:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

One guy is from work and he had a crush on me for months but was too shy to ask me out, so I asked him out, the other guy had a crush on me while I was dating his friend, and the third guy I recently met because he fixed my car and we were staring at each other so when I started talking to him, he asked me for my number. I don't know these guy very well, but they all seem nice and I can't decide which one I like the most. So would it be okay to go out with these guys without letting them know I'm dating others at the same time?

2006-10-05 18:10:55 · 29 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating

i wounder if i should tell my father he is a shitty father. i dont think he should have had kids at all. hes too weak. his oldest (me 20) is full od rage and is sure to end up in jaill for murder and this youngest (11 my half brother) is on his way to being another damn gangster. so should i tell my father he should have been more like grandpa and hit us when we needed it rather than being so soft? all though i guess it would be too late for him to change. every time i see hom i want to tell him he has dont a bad job but i dont.

2006-10-05 18:10:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-05 18:10:12 · 9 answers · asked by hey dude 3 in Singles & Dating

i have had so much difficulty in obtaining a relationship with the opposite sex. i am moderately attractive, in good shape, have a solid income, have some assets........but love eludes me........there are times im shy......but, there are times im overly aggressive. i never know what tact to take...........does anyone care to share the approach they find most inviting?????? i cant quite figure out how to approach women or when or when not to......i could really use some assistance.......not sure where to go from here...........thanks.

2006-10-05 18:09:27 · 16 answers · asked by blkhawk51 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have a hard time makeing move's on girl's cuz i'm a lil shy soo what can i do not be sooo damn shy and too just make a move? lol Someone please give me some advice

2006-10-05 18:07:44 · 5 answers · asked by Country Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-05 18:07:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dey look so dumd n stupid

2006-10-05 18:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't want to come off as some easy slut or something because I am not. It's a hobby and he keeps asking me what I like to do...so...?

2006-10-05 18:07:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating