I don't want to come off as some easy slut or something because I am not. It's a hobby and he keeps asking me what I like to do...so...?
2006-10-05 18:07:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you like to belly dance because you like to stay in shape. Try to make it seem innocent.
2006-10-05 18:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, all men want sex. all women want sex too, just not usually the same "easy" circumstances that men want it.
believe me when I say that he wants sex from you whether he knows about belly dancing or not. He maybe turned on by the talent, he may not be. As long as you make it clear that belly dancing does not mean sex, then you've done your part. If he only wants sex after that, he's not worth the time.
2006-10-05 18:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Catherine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi - Take him to dinner at a place that has belly dancing and see what he thinks of it. Do you have other hobbies? Maybe focus him on something like knitting!
Guys are guys - I wouldn't dance for him until I knew where things stood - and respect for you and your hobby is at stake.
2006-10-06 17:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by JannahLee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no i don't think he will and if he does then i don't think he is they guy for you, because he shows no respect for something you do for fun. He'll most likely think that it's HOT and probably want to see, when you feel comfortable with him then you can but if he automatically wants sex then i don't think that you should be with him. well i wish you the best of luck!! : )
2006-10-05 18:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but if you don't belly dance he'll want sex anyway. If you didn't appeal to him he wouldn't be there. No, it will not make him think you're easy, but it'll probably make him try.
2006-10-05 18:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by dulcrayon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, tell him. If he assumes immediately something bad, that means he's uneducated at best or narrow minded wich is worse. I really hope that he's smart and open-minded though.
I dance Latin. Those who generalize me into "stuck up b** with huge ego" category just for this or into "easy" don't really interest me.
2006-10-05 20:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he's gonna want it whether you belly dance or reshingle the roof. Men are just like that.
2006-10-05 18:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Raven Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is male he will want sex, belly dancing is irrelevant
girls as a male and belly dance drummer , if its done right it is erotic
2006-10-05 18:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he will. And it will probobly be better, so you should do that. By the way, I am single and living in NYC. Reply to one of my questions if you want to hang out. ;)
2006-10-05 18:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by 15fsg546rge1rrheljh45hjr90459ty3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly depends on how he thinks... if he always looks at ur butt and if he kisses you rely passionatly then maby he will insist on having sex... if he is a sweet person then, there are to sides to him, the sweet side and then there is 'always' the horny side of him. well if you rely love him then you should trust him enough to know how he will react.
2006-10-05 18:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by no 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋