I like to role play when we have sex and it makes my wife feel uncomfortable. Is it bad to this.
2006-10-05 18:18:11 · 14 answers · asked by Froggy_45 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she doesn't agree then be yourself. Did you role play during marriage?
2006-10-05 18:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is uncomfortable, it is bad. So figure out how to make her comfortable or drop it.
Maybe you could just role play in your head and don't tell her. Or come up with a less intense roll play to get her more used to the ides of it.
2006-10-06 01:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes your wife feel uneasy, it is bad not to give her some consideration because she wont enjoy the act.
Generally, it is not bad. There are some people who enjoys sex with a little perversity. You know, that creative thinking thing adds more pleasure.
2006-10-06 01:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you always like to do the same thing? Maybe that is something she has noticed and that is why she finds it disturbing....if it is just regular role playing she should not be offended. Maybe you should get her on board and get her to choose what you act out next time.
2006-10-06 01:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by KAREN S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role playing can be fun if both partners enjoy doing it. However, it should be discussed if it makes one of the partners uncomfortable.
2006-10-06 01:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by errant_hero 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, some women are not into that stuff. find out what she likes. then do it one time. tell her you like her stuff, can she please do what you want every once and a while. normally it works
hubby and i had the same problem, but not role play. I liked using toys while having sex, he didn't. so we talked about it and we do it 1 time out of every 3-4 times.
he can please me just as good, but there is something about being pounded while getting a orgasm from the clit.
2006-10-06 01:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon what role you're playing. i suspect they are roles that your wife feels are inappropriate. I'm curious just what it is you're doing int he sack to spice things up!
2006-10-06 01:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a bad thing to do, as long as you both like it. If she feel uncomfortable then you should not do it. Period.
2006-10-06 01:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by eagfan5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad if she hates it. If she hates it, and you can't get her to like it, it won't help your relationship. Get sex counseling.
2006-10-06 01:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay it on thick.
"Who's your bad little Mongol war lord?"
2006-10-06 01:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by 15fsg546rge1rrheljh45hjr90459ty3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋